Fridaymorning Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 My boyfriend has said he doesn't want me but told me that he self harmed over me seeing another guy, wth do I do?! He doesn't want me but doesn't want me to move on. I feel so guilty about it!
MontyCarlo Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Don't feel guilty about it. Listen to what you said. "He doesn't want me", "doesn't want me to move on". He obviously decided to end things, but wants to continue to control you and have you if/when he wants. Your his backup plan if his decision to leave goes wrong. Let him self harm, you did NOTHING wrong!
Sneaky Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Please don't feel guilty, he's the one doing this. It is unfair of him to expect you to stop living your life, especially since he's the one that called it off, and it's even worse that he's using this as a way of controlling you. I hope you can move forward from this and see his actions for what they are.
Haydn Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 This man is clearly an idiot. Don`t feel any guilt. You are not responsible for him. If you are so worried then contact one of his family members and tell them he needs help. Dont get involved. Its blackmail. Take care. Haydn
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