soppy91 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years plus now and I know he's friends with a lot of girl and it never used to bother me, but the last few months I've started getting really jealous because he is always on his phone texting other girls especially when he's with me, and whenever I text him he always seem to take ages to reply to me but always replies back straight away to everyone else. He also had the week off work so I thought I'd change my work times around so we can spend a bit more time together as I hardly see him any more and i was planning to take him out on Tuesday for dinner, but I've hardly seen him on his week off, he's been too busy seeing all his other girl mates and ended up going out for lunch with one of them so my dinner plans for Tuesday were ruined. I feel as if I don't really matter to him any more. I have tried talking to him about it a few times but he just starts arguing with me telling me that there just friends. Even though he tells me he loves me, I feel as if he's with me just for the sake of it now and doesn't find me attractive because after being together for 2 years we have never had sex. I've tried all sorts to get him in the mood like buying new lingerie, touching him etc... but I get nothing back. Is it time to end things with him or am i just being stupid.
truth_seeker Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 All I can say is 2 years and no hint of marriage? It's over.
devilish innocent Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 You're not being stupid. You've talked to him about what you need, and he's not listening. There's no reason to expect anything to change. If it's not the sort of a relationship you want, then it's best to move on.
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