Axee Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) I have seen that whenever I have gone thru a breakup, I tend to change my pics and put good ones in watsapp and FB, Psychologically its to prove something to my ex that "Look what you are missing" kind of thing I guess... This time, I saw my ex who hasnt changed his profile pic in over 2 years, changed his pic and put the ones he thinks are his coolest pics ( he had shared them with me in the beginning of our relationship) .. meanwhile, I updated my whatsapp pic to a nice photo of mine , (till now it was a puppy) to be honest for his benefit only.... Now watsapp, today he updated his watsapp pic to the same cool pic of his which he had updated in FB , ( he has never put a pic in watsapp from the past 8 months or so) Then , he has deleted his watsapp account (.. I know he hasnt blocked me because my friend's phone also its showing same thing) I know I am reading too much into things.. But somethings weird ..cud he be doing this for my benefit ? btw I am on Day 18 of NC and going strong Edited October 20, 2013 by Axee
mea_M Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Yup. I agree with the above poster. Not in NC if still using social media with this guy. Time to delete or block from all forms of online communication if you wish to remain in NC. What be taunted by him any longer? Close this chapter once and for all. Good luck. Mea:) 1
Author Axee Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 We were never friends in FB... but have some mutual friends..
mea_M Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 We were never friends in FB... but have some mutual friends.. If he's still on your whatsapp then you are still in contact. Delete him. Best advice I can give in order for you to move forward. Mea:) 3
Author Axee Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 If he's still on your whatsapp then you are still in contact. Delete him. Best advice I can give in order for you to move forward. Mea:) To be honest, I could stay NC all this while coz I used to check his last seen time and feel content ,I used to feel his presence , I know its stupid but that worked for me.. Now I am a bit stronger .. so no more watsapp since he has deleted his account..
faithfully Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 If he's still on your whatsapp then you are still in contact. Delete him. Best advice I can give in order for you to move forward. Mea:) Yeap i agree with Mea delete him. Block him too coz NC means NC and rhat includes checking up on him if he is still online or last time he was online. You need to completely remove him. Only wayy i can try move on is blocking mine and deleting coz i checked on his status so had to start at Day 1 over again 1
reddragon588 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 To be honest, I could stay NC all this while coz I used to check his last seen time and feel content ,I used to feel his presence , I know its stupid but that worked for me.. Now I am a bit stronger .. so no more watsapp since he has deleted his account.. This is like an alcoholic saying, "I'm still sober as long as I don't have more than one drink. Just to feel the presence." 1
JDPT Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Too much back and forth selective media antics. Get rid of it all and educate yourself on the true definition of "NC" 1
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