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why wont he admit his feeling or am I wrong to think he feels something


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Okay so in late june I met this amazing guy whom i totally hit it off with right away and i am talking about that amazing connection that is very difficult to find! I remember that day you could completely tell he was interested off the bat and so I looked forward to the following friday that I would see him in church. that night we met we didnt exchange numbers but the following friday i saw him, he asked for my number, something different I had seen him do with other girls was that he would just give them his number. Well he texted me about half hour after we went home and from that point on would text me everyday, all day. I learned he had a gf when i met him so I was completely trying to keep it at friend zone out of respect for her. more into our "friendship" he broke up with her and was upset for a couple days but after that was when we actually starting seeing each other on dates. I remember one time he dropped a million things to do to drive half hr to my house just to fix my car window. we went on several days and he would always say that i was very pretty and that he had never met a type of woman like me. He would always be concerned when he noticed so something was wrong with me and would feel my absence when we didnt text or didnt see each other. hes a fisher so trying to get into what he was interested, i asked him to take me fishing and he gladly did the next day, a monday at that. a week later we went fishing again and we had a disagreement. he didnt talk to me for about two hours we were out there fishing. he later texted me he was sorry and said we would no longer have hugs or kisses or anything like that in our "friendship". I said that i was actually starting to have feelings for him and didnt understand and he just asked that where had those feelings come from. i felt so stupid and said that i would forget about the situation. he didnt talk to me for days. eventually he told he that he stopped because didnt the point in trying when i had said i would forget. why would he care if he didnt have feelings? eventaully things got back to normal and two weeks later i felt him drifting from me. i told him again i said i would forget about him but that i didnt. that my feelings were still there and he just told me we could be nothing but friends. now i see him and he ignores me or avoids would be a better word. his body language lets me know he knows im in the room. but then last week for the first time things seemed back to normal when i saw him and i caught him several times looking at me in an intense way. does he have feelings or am i crazy to think he ever did? i am just so confused and dont understand anything anymore please help

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I'm guessing you are both very young and immature.

 

Sounds like he was dumped and hurting. Stay away until he heals and then let him know you are interested as more than a friend.

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