sewold09 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 So i recently worked up the courage to ask this guy at work out on a date. I have secretly been liking him for a couple of weeks so this was kind of a big step for me. I asked him out and he said yes! So of course i was super excited, went home to plan out my outfit for the upcoming date and told all my close friends. It wasn't until the next morning that i got a text from him saying, "You are super sweet, but I'm actually seeing someone right now." I was kind of shattered and confused on why he agreed to go out with me and then suddenly backed out. Should i try to be friends with him or do you think its a hopeless cause?
mg9219 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 I think you shouldn't make it awkward and just go on as you normally would even though I understand you're confused. If you completely ignore him, he will know you're upset and if you're eagerly after him, it's too much. Talk to him naturally when needed but without seeking him out
deathandtaxes Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Will you have a lot of interaction with him at work? Just leave it be at that. You asked, he said yes, but then rejected you. He might just be doing you a favor. Workplace romances can get very messy when things go south.
HokeyReligions Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 I'd let it go a s others have said. Count yourself lucky too. He was going out with you while in a relationship?! He probably got busted when he tried to justify to his girlfriend the time he would have spent with you.
Keenly Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 hmm......... maybe you should let a men be a men and you be a woman. dont try to change the roles. even if its 2013. men still men and woman still woman. thats how its made. and thats how men are generly. your job as a woman is to just let a men know you like him. and its his job to ask you out, or to date him, marry him etc. because woman are more emotional. but men can mess with you for years just for something they need from you without being into you. so they will only hunt you when they see something in you. its up to you to see if he is there for the right reasons. so by you hunting him and asking him , puts you in a awkward position. i think you should act normal , and let him know what you think in a very short massage and then move on act like with of without him your life stills great. No no no no no no a million times no. This has nothing to do with why he said no .
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