kanickval Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) Okay heres the situation. I met this girl at work a week and a half ago. We instantly hit it off and were both flirtatious with each other and into each other, went to a bar after work for a drink and found out she just got out of a controlling relationship. Literally the relationship they had was over at the bar that night... I worked with her again 5 days later and we walked to our cars after work and I ended up in her car for a good two hours we just couldn't stop learning about each other and talking. The chemistry was excellent. I got her number when I left and proceeded to text her the next day. The texts were healthy and going back and forth for the next few days until we worked together again. We both hinted our excitement to see each other and this time at work it was a bit more physical. A lot more of the physical flirting and as far as her cuddling up on me because she was cold... seems like its going just great. We went out again for a drink and continued to have healthy conversation, ended up in her car.... again. She was telling me all my good attributes and wasnt sure if its a good thing that i could make her laugh so much (talk about exactly what a guy wants to hear). For a couple hours until I was due back in for work. We planned some dates to go on and she seemed very excited. As I was leaving we hugged and I kissed her. It turned into a longer one. Ended up kissing like 10 times without pulling away... she smiled and appeared to be happy. And it happened again... no tongue though so nothing to serious yet. I proceeded to text her saying that I hope that wasnt too forward but I couldn't resist and she reassured me that it was fine and she was excited about our date saturday. The non stop texting had dropped drastically and come date day I hadnt heard from her so I asked if we were still on. She texts me hours later saying sorry my phone was dead and that her mom (who lives in florida) sent her this: "I just got a voicemail from my mom saying she's flying into Louisville tonight an I have to pick her up...what a great surprise :-/ im really really sorry but I wont be home until 11." (Sounded pretty far fetched to me but who knows maybe thats how her mom really is) I said its completely fine and asked if we were still on for tomorrow (we made plans for both day) and I received no response. Which tells me one of two things.... 1. Shes being completely honest with me and feels remorseful and doesn't want to tell me we're off for tomorrow as well because this is basically her first impression date wise. Or 2. I moved too fast and she doesn't want to make the workplace awkard and uncomfortable if she tells me the feelings arent mutual. I dont get stood up often and when I do I get super mind effed so if anyone has advice. Bring it on im open ears thanks! Edited October 20, 2013 by kanickval
madjac74 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 1. ugh...use paragraphs! Your story was hard to read. 2. Don't date co-workers 3. I use the "my phone was dead" when I blow someone off
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