jinandjuice Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 When a girl says " I can't say that I like you but I have feelings for you. I'm uncertain of those feelings and thats why i can't say I like you so I need time". We went out multiple dates, kissed made out but no sex.
Maxtor Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 When a girl says " I can't say that I like you but I have feelings for you. I'm uncertain of those feelings and thats why i can't say I like you so I need time". We went out multiple dates, kissed made out but no sex. She is using you like a backup plan. Probably she'll come to you when the main guy hurts her or disappears. Be careful.
todreaminblue Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) when you have feelings for someone to me there isnt anything unknown ...you like the person you care abotu them so feelings develop.... if someone says they are unsure of their feelings to me it is a fear of what they feel...and an ability to face or explore the depths of what they feel so they go nah not sure dont know not thinking about it........they dont trust themselves.....its not you....ok i wont use that its not you thing again...smilin...but it is fear of what they feel that so they say things like i dont know what i feel..... this is entirely my perspective may or may not be true with your friend...but holds true to me..another truth is ...that they are trying to develop feelings that are not there they feel they will develop over time...but you cant go ahead and say that to a guy or a woman for that matter..... it would be like saying this... hey ... i think you are ok dont really have feelings for you but i am hoping they may develop the more i know you, if they dont i am probably going to dump you and if they do develop ill stay......what woudl a guy say to that i wonder....dont think it would be good ...more like rack off dont waste my time which is realistic and understandable.....i have been guilty of both i think most women have .....ill admit it....i also have told a guy that i wasnt sure of my feelings and that i felt they would become stronger over time...he accepted....and it didnt work out........deb Edited October 20, 2013 by todreaminblue
Author jinandjuice Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) Damn. that sucks so much. she told me she seems me more than just a friend to. we talk everyday in some form and if she just said that too use me.. would waiting for her or pursuing be bad ? Edited October 20, 2013 by jinandjuice
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