snipit3172 Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 im not a bad person but all my life i have been through relationships where i have been dumped the relationships have never even been that great but i always try and sort things out rather than walk away but my last relationship was the best i have ever had he was so sweet and caring and made me feel so special ( something i was not used to ) anyway 3 months ago he just stopped contacting me and wuld not reply to any contact from me so obvioussly i had been dumped again but he did not bother to tell me or explain why a month ago i found out the reason we are not together is because i was nice to him and never gave him any grief which i dont think is a bad thing he did not tell me this his dad told me cos i have been an emotional wreck since we split and he was worried about me people say i will meet someone who will love me for being the way i am but like i told them i cannot go through that again dont know if my heart can take it i had been on my own for 18 months before i met him but he made me feel special so i fell in love with him but its getting harder rather than easier as time is going on for me to cope has anyone any advice any will be much appreciated thanks in advance
NiCoLe20 Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 same thing kind of happened tome... i was withmy ex - eric for about 6 months...then we split up... and a few months later got back together...we were good for a couple more months and he just stopped calling to hang outall of a sudden... i didnt understand why... we only saw each other on weekends and maybe once or twice during the week b/c we both work long hours and tired at the end of the day. so i was like ok he wants to play games fine!! i got back together with antoher X and have been with him since. i dont understand why he stopped calling...we never had a fight he just started ignoring me. i still dont know why to this day... his life was a wreck tho.. he was in the middle of getting a new job and getting a car so i guess i was put on hold. he couldve told me that tho. but i dont know if thats the real reason. so i havent made an effort to talk to him b/c obviously he doesnt want me... but whatever its his loss and you should think of it like that too... im over it and if he wanted to be w/ you he wouldve called right?
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