What are the odds?

[StandingO]

A friend of mine finally left her husband after wanting to for years.

Basically, she has a very high sex drive and her husband had very low sexual drive. She is straight with bi urges.

She is good friends and often a work out partner with my GF. I know in conversations with her (she talks to much when drinking) she would and wants have sex either myself or with my GF. My GF thinks not and says she has never tried. I think my GF is in denial that one day she will make a pass on her because the friendship is strong. In the past she has cheated on her husband with other men and even a woman. Now she is free I think things could change between the friendship.

[xxoo]

What are the odds that she will make a pass on your gf? Probably high, especially as she drinks and has poor boundaries when she does so.

 

Or the odds that your gf will cheat? That has nothing to do with the friend, and everything to do with your gf. Do you have reason to distrust her? Have you discussed what you both consider appropriate and inappropriate in this situation, given that the friend has already expressed interest in sex with both of you? (that conversation already crossed a significant boundary)

[StandingO]

Yes, the odds she will try and the likely hood the friendship of many years could end on a sour note if she tries and is ejected.

I think if she does not fill her sexual needs with someone it is only a matter of time before she makes a move on either myself of my GF. Maybe it is just talk but I sense her desires sometimes. I see it in her eyes and facial expression when tipsy. She will occasionally make comments about my GF like "J" as got such a great ass" or even stronger while biting her own lips or "you too are the sexist couple I know" I don't think my gf would have a relationship with her. She says she has no sexual desires about other women and values the friendship too much. I could not cheat on my gf either but I admit the woman is extremely attractive...I would not go there. I am not sure if my GF would tell me if the pass was made. I would be reluctant to tell my gf about a strong pass based on what would happen to there friendship.