shineslikegold Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 I already wrote a really long post summarizing all this, but my ex and I have a mutual "friend" who is the security guard where I work/he goes to school. Ever since he came back to school he rekindled his friendship with the guard. The guard was 100% on my side regarding the breakup. When my ex came back to school a month ago, he offered the guard moonshine and they've at least exchanged text messages. The guard told me a month ago, "You need to not think about him and not talk about him. Move on." I've tried to do that. Every few days now, the guard brings him up. He'll ask me, "are you over him? You don't talk about him anymore," or, "So what's the latest on him?" Today he told me, "Hey you wanna go to a Halloween party next week? It's at Dan's. We could sneak you in, but he'd probably curse me out." For someone who flat out told me to stop thinking/talking about him, he sure does talk about him a LOT around me. When I called him out on it today, he denied that he talks to him....but he's close enough with him to get a Halloween party invite via text. Every time he does this I get ticked off and change the subject. I don't understand why he's doing this, but it's making it extremely difficult to move on when I have to hear his name brought up when I'm working. Could it be my ex getting him to bring him up because he knows it will torture me? During our relationship, my ex even told me he knew anything he said to the guard would get back to me. My friends don't think I'm being paranoid, but I have to ask - what do you all think? Have you ever had an ex pull something like this?
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