Traptinmihead Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 (edited) So, this is an odd situation I have with my ex. Long story short, my ex girlfriend broke up with me after an 11 month relationship. It was primarily my fault as I got angry at how she was becoming distant (which should've been a warning for me to give space for both me and her). I apologized for the outburst and respected her decision. After that, we were basically in NC for a month and a half, except occasions where we run into mutual friends. No texts, calls or messages whatsoever. She was not looking at me at all for the 3 times we ran into each other, but during this time I have been doing new workout routines, trying out new social groups, and just getting my confidence back. I have not chased her and basically did my own thing during those times. The interesting part came a few days ago when we ran into each other at a festival. At first, she ran into me with a mutual friend as they were volunteering and the mutual friend wanted me to sign up but she didn't talk or look at me. Then, it progressed to constant runins throughout the day where she waved from a distance one time, then complimented my clothes, to then having a really fun conversation with a group of us with us making occassional eye contact. Each time, I walked away from the run ins and met up with other friends until we run into each other again. The biggest run in came after the party where we all went to see a premier of a tv show at a mutual friends bar. I arrive after her and she starts looking at me significantly more. I sit a couple seats down from her between two other friends. We have a good amount of conversation and talk like we used to about stuff, we make each other laugh and she gives me a good amount of eye contact, to the point where once or twice we lock eyes for a good 5-10 seconds and smile at each other. After the show, I leave and go home, said goodbye to her but didn't hug or invade her space. This was certainly a nice confidence boost for me, but it still makes me wonder what I should make of this situation. It would be nice to get back in her good graces as we really did support each other through ALOT of hardships, never had "arguments" and the chemistry between us was a lot more exciting for both of us (she was always surprised at the new stuff I tried with her but loved it) . I forgave both myself and her in my mind for the issues we had and wouldnt mind starting fresh. We still have not called or texted each other, but I feel I may send something simple to test the waters and drum up a common interest convo. Do any of you think that there may be still something there given the interaction we had? Im not going to put my life on hold for this, but its still an avenue I may be curious to explore. Edited October 19, 2013 by Traptinmihead
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