jjjj44 Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 Okay, I'm having some issues, in that things always seem to be going well between me and the guy I like and then it suddenly goes bad. For instance, I recently had a class with this guy that I started to like and things were going really well, we would always joke around and there was one point last week when I thought that things had really hit a high point. I thought things were especially good when I left class with this other guy-friend of mine and then I saw that the guy that I like came over to us so that we could walk together to our next class. And when we got to class, we were talking and flirting the whole time and then later he called me to ask about class and we talked a bit. Then, this week things went sour. I was pretty stressed out this week and not in the greatest mood, and then I noticed that he just kind of stopped paying so much attention to me and when I called him to ask about something in the class he seemed kind of preoccupied and we barely spoke at all and it sounded like he wasn't interested at all, even though things were going so well before. He would always laugh at my jokes and, in fact, he was the one who initiated our first conversation. So I'm wondering, what am I doing wrong? Is it my personality, was it because I was a little stressed and not in the best mood this week? I was trying not to think about it, and I know this guy is not the last guy on earth, but what if this happens again, what if I always mess things up like this? What do you guys think happened? Please help!
Devildog Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 Cool the jets there Turbo. Not sure how old you are or where you are located, but It's 2:00 AM in the US. Only people on here now either work nights or are insomniacs. Or in foriegn countries. But in those 2 hours since your original post, you have added two more word for word requests and asked for follow ups twice. Maybe the problem is that you have no patience.
Author jjjj44 Posted December 9, 2004 Author Posted December 9, 2004 You know what, you have a point. I guess that I don't have that much patience. You think that maybe I just expect too much too soon? Thanks.
Devildog Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 I don't know what to think for sure. Don't know much of anything about you. But from what I have seen of your posts, you strike me as impatient and perhaps demanding, which might be selfishness. You might just be young and immature. If you think there is something wrong with your personality, I suggest taking a brutally honest look at yourself. Nit pick your flaws, don't be arrogant. If you think there is something wrong with you or your personality, try to change it. Just don't beat yourself up so much that you end up hating yourself. Do it to improve yourself.
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