Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Put myself out where? I don't want to pick up guys at the gym - I go there to work out. I focus when I'm there. Work - ahhh no! Online - seems weird and superficial - fake photos and s Supermarket s**t Where???
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 I'm literally DYING right now. No jokes.
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 btw to answer your question about squats ATG Squats 12-15 reps/ 80# Sumo squat 12 reps/ 135# Sumo squat 10 reps/ 185# Sumo squat 10 reps/ 205# Sumo squat 10 reps/ 205# Split squat 8-10 reps 135# Split squat 8-10 reps 135#
FitChick Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 If you want to have no strings sex, join the AshleyMadison dating website. It's full of married people who want to cheat.
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Sorry not into married men at all.
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 And a great ass. Rethinking Ontario yet.
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Well, I'm not exactly sure what a "gym bunny" is but I don't go the gym for the sole purpose of aesthetics - I go because it makes me feel good, I love working out and for me it is the best way to cut back stress until it makes me super horny and that brings about a whole other type of stress. I don't go to the gym looking 'pretty" which is probably why I don't get any guys there LOL. I go to work out. A lot of the time I don't even train in the gym - I love to train outdoors, at the track or run hills or stairs. I like to train alone - I find it very relaxing. Every year I set a new fitness goal for myself so that I have to change up my training and it doesn't get stale. Couple years ago I ran a marathon, then I was doing capoeira, now I'm training to compete in 100m sprint. I think next I'm going to train for a triathlon. I like to keep my body firm, fit and healthy but i don't want to be too muscular. I like "light" definition. Hey, is my IQ rating going up at all. on a different but the same topic which I know is going to drop my IQ rating again - so I told this guy to make the next move after we agreed to FWB. How long do I give him until I just tell him to forget about it. And don't judge - I have needs that are almost preventing me from having complete thoughts.
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Ohay there! How's it going Skela? Remember me? The guy who told you this guy was into you, and would go for FWB? I know... I know... It's a curse to be the lone voice in the wilderness crying "He wants to nail you!" When everybody else tells you to move on. I should totally change my username to "Penis Peophet" or "Doctor loooove" So what's up? on a different but the same topic which I know is going to drop my IQ rating again - so I told this guy to make the next move after we agreed to FWB. How long do I give him until I just tell him to forget about it. And don't judge - I have needs that are almost preventing me from having complete thoughts. Contact him. He already knows you're direct, so is probably wondering why you're not calling him. He's might be new to the whole FWB thing, since there is an awful drought of awesome women like you who are into it. (At least in Toronto)
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Critically, I just mentioned this to him on Saturday and said look you be the aggressor plan something. Is this too soon to contact him again. Honestly, I'm crossed-eyed from horniness right now but still don't want to come across as stalkerish LOL
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Give him a couple of days, jeez! He's probably sitting there going "Jees, I wonder if I should call her.... I don't want to be to aggressive!" If he doesn't get back to you by Wednesday/Thursday give him a call. He might have other things in his life besides being your willing boy toy sometimes I don't know what my weekend looks like until I get to Wednesday. You meant this Saturday, right? Not ten days ago?
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Yes this Saturday. I wasn't getting impatient...yet. I'm new to this - just wasn't sure how long to give him. I want him to actually make the move this time. You're in T.O.?
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 About half the year, yeah But give him a little time. No guy wants to look desperate by calling a day or two later. FWB or not
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 haha. Will do and if I don't hear from him then?
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 and i'm new to this FWB thing - is sexting, which I love doing, and stuff like that in between hook ups allowed?
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Then give him a call or text him and see what's up. The stuff you told him might have gone in one ear and out the other. Or maybe he thought "Oh... She wants me to be aggressive in bed! Awesome!" Guys don't always hear the same thing a girl says. 1
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Oh. And it's Criticality btw. Not critically. I can be critical ******* at times, but not in my username.
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Haha. i realized that after I hit send. LOL. How come only half the year in Toronto?
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Haha. i realized that after I hit send. LOL. How come only half the year in Toronto? It's too damn cold the other half! Lol... It's mostly work related though. I spend 6-8 months there, and the rest of the year in Europe. 1
emva07 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Must admit, only read first and last page.... The things with FWBs.....don't overthink it. If he calls great, if he doesn't, great, lol. I understand it becomes a problem when you're horny but don't force it. If you are THAT horny that you can't wait, txt him. This is a two way street. 1
Criticality Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Must admit, only read first and last page.... The things with FWBs.....don't overthink it. If he calls great, if he doesn't, great, lol. I understand it becomes a problem when you're horny but don't force it. If you are THAT horny that you can't wait, txt him. This is a two way street. OH MAN! That's a shame, check out the middle, where Skela explains that the FWB is her stepbrother. Keep reading till you get to it, that's the good part! 1
Author skela Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Just received a text from him - can I say that I start being more explicit in my responses or is it too soon. I mean, he knows what I want.
Zahara Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 You offer him FWB and he's sitting on it? How funny. Chuckaboots is right. You already stated you want FWB/sex, send him a text and state when and where. Take the reins. If he can't make it, he'll offer an alternative. Or maybe he'll send you more flowers. 1
Mascara Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 You can't TELL someone to be the aggressor.... that kind of defeats the whole point. Disappointed to see you went for the movie. The awkward parting was inevitable, I did try to tell you. A FWB date should be drinks in a dark bar, edging closer, getting drunker. 2
tlegend Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I don't understand how I do not get opportunities such as this. I love the FWB thing, its what I prefer, but it hardly EVER has "no strings attached" such as this. It's a true ****-buddy relationship, and that's awesome! Too bad this guy is too big of a tool to get that.
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