duran98 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 (edited) hey new user here, got kinda a long story here, im 24 and going to community college... So theres this girl in my political science class that ive had my eye on. The class only meets once a week so that makes things tougher. One week i decided to make a move and ask her to hangout. So this one week in class (she sits in front of me) we leave class at the same time, as we were walking down the hall i turned back at her and gave a smile, she smiled back, and asked her about class etc. we just talked about how hard the class was and how i "read her mind" on what we thought about a on a quote the teacher wrote on the board. eventually that conversation died down and i asked her where she was headed to. unfortunately she had a 5 hour drive, to drive her mom who was visiting for the week, back to nor cal. (we live in so cal). she told me how she just moved here n how the big city was too much at first (shes from a small town). so i decided to back off since she had a 5 hour drive ahead of her. next week i wanted to make my move again but she didnt show up. then this week i was in the hallway sitting on the floor waiting for the teacher to arrive, she comes and sits next to me on the floor. i asked if her name was donna (which i kinda knew) she smiled and said yes and we talked about class for a min or two before the teacher arrived. as we sat down i gave her a few glances and smiles and she returned them back. finally after class ended, we left class at the same time again but this time, 2 other guys walked with us. we were talking about how hard class was n such, eventually 1 guy went in the other direction and it was down to 3 of us, we walked n talked some more then the last guy went of in another direction. so just me n, her walking to our cars, i teased her a little bit about something that happened in class, she then shows me how her knee was swollen up ( it was bandaged) on her iphone and said thats y she wasnt there last week. so we talk about that some more till that conversation died down. i was about to ask her if she was going to go anywhere then she abruptly threw up peace signs and said "by enjoy your weekend" so i say "you too" so she gets in her car and i walk to mine (oddly enough we ended parking right next to each other) i take a few steps towards my car and at the last second turn back to look at her, and i see her looking at me, i smiled and she smiled back and giggled. next week i plan to get to class early and ask her if shes doing anything after class hopefully she doesnt have plans. i guess my question here is, when she abruptly said good bye should i have just asked her if she wanted to hangout anyway, i felt if i did it would feel forced, i didnt want to look desperate. ive only been with one girl my whole life so im pretty inexperienced, just looking for some guidance here. thanks (and is this the right sub forum to put this in? thx) Edited October 19, 2013 by duran98
KathyM Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 You should have asked her out or asked if you could call her sometime. You had a few chances to do that, but didn't. No need to wait. Make sure you ask her after the next class, or someone else will eventually beat you to the punch. Women like confident men that are willing to put themselves out there, and are not afraid to be direct. If she is friendly to you and acts interested in talking to you, she would likely be receptive to your invitation to hang out, or request for her phone number. If she is not, then at least you will have found out early on and can move on and not waste more time and emotional energy in someone who is not interested. Take a chance. Show confidence. Women are attracted to that.
theothersully Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 You did great so far... Reading the post, I could feel the tension in the air. It's time now though! Don't wait any longer.
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