forgetmenot75 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Don't feel guilty for not helping her. You did just fine, and she is a selfish prick that doesn't respect your time and your feelings. plus she is making you feel guilty...for what?? She dumped you! What means: she doesn't love you. She doesn't want to be with you. She set you free and you can do whatever you want to do with your life. AND if you don't want to go fix her damn car, you don't go. And it's just like that. You are not her friend. If she has problems and she knows no one to call: SO BAD!!! You are doing good. Keep the no contact. 1
Author Froelich87 Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 Don't feel guilty for not helping her. You did just fine, and she is a selfish prick that doesn't respect your time and your feelings. plus she is making you feel guilty...for what?? She dumped you! What means: she doesn't love you. She doesn't want to be with you. She set you free and you can do whatever you want to do with your life. AND if you don't want to go fix her damn car, you don't go. And it's just like that. You are not her friend. If she has problems and she knows no one to call: SO BAD!!! You are doing good. Keep the no contact. Thank you so very much. This is so damn hard. I hate this and I wish this would go away. I was doing great. Going out and diving head first into the single life. Now, I feel like I started all over again. I haven't left my apartment all weekend. I feel like Jason Segel in Forgetting Sarah Marshall. I've seriously been in my damn pj's since Friday after this happened and I don't know how to pick myself up again. All I can think about is her. I know I shouldn't care about what she's up to but I can't stop thinking about it. I know she's out having a good time... but I can't right now. I just can't.
Sugarkane Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Personally I wouldn't only because you never see dumpers willing to do the same thing in return.
Author Froelich87 Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 Personally I wouldn't only because you never see dumpers willing to do the same thing in return. Could you elaborate please?
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