ls32ssibm Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Getting to know someone, and believing they are perfect for you in essentially every way imaginable... ...then they realize they aren't all that into you personally and move on. This happened to me at the end of last year, and it just bit me on the ass again when I ran into her and remember how much I cared for her.
crazyinluv Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Well, the good news is.. Most people stay single for a looong time. Also, most relationships do not work out. You didn't lose anyone, you gained perspective and can now better prepare yourself for next time you meet someone. It's all a learning lesson until you perfect your dating game. IDK how old you are, but take everything you learned from the experience and apply it to your next experience. Good luck!
tlegend Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 If anyone goes to a forum to seek help, they have lost something or need to gain something. I don't imagine confident men who get girls come on to forums to seek help. I'm an extremely confident man, and yet, I post on these forums for suggestions every so often. Moreso to give advice than anything, but also to receive advice once in a while.
Phantom888 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 I am a very aggressive man. But with my woman, I am extremely gentle. I put her on a pedestal (inadvertently), as she is perfect in my eyes. I know that's not the right attitude but I don't care. I love her so much. It would piss me off if she lost interest in me because I'm so nice to her. I am a romantic, so I write love letters to her, send her flowers, cuddle with her, and give her oral sex for almost an hour every time I make love to her. If a woman can't appreciate my nature, then she is not the right match for me. Fortunately, my woman loves me back, and is soooo good to me. My point is: just be yourself. If you are not an Alpha male, that's okay.... There is a type for every woman. Don't be someone you are not. If a girl is not into you, then she's not a good match anyway. You know it when you find the right match. This could take years for most people, but when it's right, it's DAMN GOOD!!!
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