loveher4eva Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Long story very short... Love of my life cheated a lot, lied a lot got tested for been crazy and stole from me and her family. I never saw it coming. I know it won't ever take her back but it's been years now and I have been with other women sinse but I havnt loved anyone and I'm worried because I know even though I shouldn't that I will love her forever and that I will think no one else will compare because even though she clearly didn't love me I seriously wanted to be with her for ever and I can't see me loosing that feeling and gaining it with someone else. If my mother wasn't around I swear I would just put myself out of my misery and end my life
Grumpybutfun Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 OP: This is beyond just thinking you will never love again. You sound like you have some issues that you need to resolve with the help of a therapist and a medical check-up. Seek some help immediately and let your mom know that you feel depressed right now. Best, Grumps
Author loveher4eva Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 Hi don't worry it's not going to happen any time soon it's just I know what I am like I will love her no matter what she did and I'm not daft enough to get back with her it's just hard thinking I will live life only loving her. I'm a one woman man which is good it's just the one woman didn't take me as seriously as I did her. The only point to life is love and when my mum dies I just won't want to carry on so I live till that day passes
aybc123 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 (edited) If you haven't found someone to replace a person that treated you badly in numerous different ways then you are not looking hard enough. Think about it this way, i read your story and I thought, would I ever want to be in a relationship with that girl? And the answer is hell no I would not go within a mile of her, and im pretty sure that would go for most people here. So if we can all see from one paragraph that she is not worth your time, so can you. Edited October 18, 2013 by aybc123
Author loveher4eva Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 Hi of course your rite on paper she is not worth it and in reality she isn't worth it but I just simply cannot cut off the connection I feel and the memories. I know I shouldn't feel a thing but I do it's the girl I thought she was that I miss most. Your right I don't look for other girls I have sort of been put off trying now. I don't want the same outcome I feel worthless since all of this
Grumpybutfun Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Hi of course your rite on paper she is not worth it and in reality she isn't worth it but I just simply cannot cut off the connection I feel and the memories. I know I shouldn't feel a thing but I do it's the girl I thought she was that I miss most. Your right I don't look for other girls I have sort of been put off trying now. I don't want the same outcome I feel worthless since all of this OP: One of the greatest lessons in life that you will learn is how to accept people for who they really are and to let go of any preconceived ideas you may have of them. She is not what you imagined, and by holding onto her, you are devaluing and disrespecting yourself. Please tell your mom you feel depressed, as this could be situational depression or something more. Best, Grumps
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