blackstreet23 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I can't find a date. I just ask everyone for advice's, including people I know and people I don't know. This is a huge problem for me. I am 18 and I feel extremely lonely. I don't care on having many girls, I just would like to find a nice girl. I am a dark skin Latin with nappy hair, I mainly like blond or red hair white girls, even though in the town I live here in USA, Passaic, Nj there are mainly Latin girls which many of them are pretty and I would be open to date them, I even asked out some of them, got their numbers, but when I call them or text them, I got no reply. I don't like much how girl here are much, because their attitude go against my values. For example one day, they were doing IHV or something like that tests and almost all girls specially Hispanic went to do it, so that really broke my heart and let me know that they just don't care about giving themselves to guys they don't even know much about for meaningless sex that may end up on their death. 2 days ago a really cute blond girl with blue eyes gave me her number, I felt a lot of connection between she and me, she smiled a lot and looked interested, but turned out not be, because she hasn't answer my calls no my texts. Today I tried luck in the nearby town, Wallington, where there are a lot of cute polish girls. I flirted with 4. I just asked them for the time and then told them they were cute, just 1 liked it but she left right the way, other seemed non interested and the 2 others said that they were lesbians laughing . I think they just like white guys because there I have seen a lot of tall blonds and red hair guys, with big bodies and mussels. I just can't compete with that. I many times just consider giving up.
Philosoraptor Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 You come off very needy and desperate, and that's going to turn off most women. Find solace in being alone and you'll be able to lose this dependence you have on finding a woman. Once you do that you can approach with more confidence and not let this clingy behavior get in your way.
Criticality Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 that really broke my heart and let me know that they just don't care about giving themselves to guys they don't even know much about for meaningless sex that may end up on their death. "Giving themselves to guys" "Meaningless sex that may end up on their death" Say what now?!? Is this the same thread I started reading? Are we still talking about teenage girls in NJ, or is OP describing some disturbing run in he had with 14 year old virgins sold off to a drug cartel in Columbia or Pakistan?!? I'm confused. Just a tad but much drama there, eh OP? And BTW: You're pretty much telling us how all your local girls are dumb whores that aren't good enough for you. That's the gist of it, right? If that is something that you're often complaining about, maybe that's the reason why they don't call back and give you fake numbers?
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