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Well, my ex messed with my head yet again. A couple of days ago he began texting me about work related stuff. Then after a few messages he got personal saying that he knew I had moved on and would respect that but he loved me and was just too much of a chump to say it to my face. Then he apologized for everything he put me through. I didn't reply, I just shut my office door and cried like a baby. I got my s**t together soon after but just like always, I was an emotional rollercoaster for the rest of the day.

 

I guess I have finally reached the anger stage. I am pissed that he would say something like that to me while I was at work knowing that it would tug at my heart strings. And not to mention by TEXT. He is too much of a coward to even apologize to my face. The text was long and part of it said that he was too hurt to talk to me for a long time because he knew how much he had hurt me. HE was hurt!?!? HE was the liar and cheater! HE was the one who accused me of flirting while he was trying to get with every girl he met, HE was the one stayed out til 6 am in my car, HE was the one told me to wear his shirts because guys looked at me when I wore my own, HE was the one who told me I couldn't bend over in public because men looked at me, HE accused me of needing attention from men, HE was the one who checked my BC to make sure I was taking it, HE was the one who set up an Adult Friend Finder account! But HE was too hurt to talk to ME!?! I was the one who carried him at work and after he lost his job, I was the one who made his dinner and did his laundry, I was the one who played with his nieces and bought Mother's Day cards for his mom and grandmother. I was a devoted GF. HE was a loser!

 

To put the cherry on top, yesterday I was trying to close a program on my computer and during a search a bunch of his email came up. Several emails to 2 women right in front of my face. Incriminating, both women had been to his apartment on days I had night class. I know one of the women, she is a nurse for the insurance company my clients use. I won't be able to look her in the face without showing disgust again. The amount of lying and deceit is just overwhelming. He has a problem. I hope he grows up and finds a way to get help.

 

On a positive note, I am seeing someone new. So far things are going well. Being with him makes me wonder how I ever got involved with someone like my ex. Thanks for listening to me vent!

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He was seeing how you would react. Typical manipulator behavior.

 

I wouldn't start anything serious with anyone until you've dropped all feelings for your ex. It's not fair to a new person to have you still hung up on your ex... and if texts can make you cry like a baby you're still hung up.

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