flacss7410 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 So..me and this girl are talking..close to making te relationship official.. last night we were video chatting..and her phone was blowing up. She said it was her friends and such whatever..but it kind of bugged me..Am I wrong for feeling a little out of place with this?? I mean she is entitled to have her own social life..but it was so annoying she would start a sentence then her phone would go off..she would be like hold on. maybe im out of bounds idk and also. im still just being me ... i feel like she just living life which is cool..relationships take time..but i try and be short like kind make her feel like she is going to lose me ..is this wrong..? I dont wanna feel like she is getting her cake and eating it too..hardest part I really like her and Im wanting it all to work out
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 It is a little rude if you two are having a scheduled video chat and she keeps using her phone, yes. If you're just casually chatting and are both talking to other people at the same time too I don't think you've got much grounds to be annoyed. As for the 'playing hard to get', it's probably good to keep your cards close to your chest early on, but I wouldn't go out of your way to act aloof or like she might lose you. It depends on the girl but personally if I felt like I was going to potentially lose a guy this early on, I'd chalk it up to him not being interested and move on. Personally I've always much preferred men to be open and honest about their feelings towards me, no silly game playing. 1
Author flacss7410 Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 i guess it may just be that trust factor..got to not sweat her having a social life. It wasnt scheduled we just happened to be talking at the time. and the aloof thing..i think maybe im anxious for the relationship to become official.
mammasita Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Why didn't she have her ringer off/on vibrate. Was she purposely trying to make it a point that she had other people contacting her? If so, that's a bit rude. How long have you been dating/talking?
Author flacss7410 Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 it was on vibrate but i could hear it..been talking for about a year..she said recently she considers us together but not official..i cant lock her down from her social life,,just wondering if anyone else had the same problem..
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