blackstreet23 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I met this incredible looking girl after a college speak that we has given by a holocaust survival lady. Then I saw her get away and approached to her, told her that I always look her walking with her brother and I would really like to get to know her. I asked her for her Facebook and she gave me very pleased her name and phone number thing that I didnt ask for. I also asked her if she would like to go out someday, maybe a walk in the park and she said yes, and I just need to call her. That was yesterday , I called her today 2 times and even sent her a nice message saying, that I just wanted to say hi, and know how she was and to know how did her medical appointment went. I haven't gotten any reply or called yet. I just really liked this girl and I am scare she just may not be interested, advices please!!!!!
Omei Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 You called her twice and sent the text hold off on anymore for at least a week after a week do it once more only once, and if still no reply Forget about her. Follow this to the T. You dont want to look desperate. When you text at the end of the week keep it very simple like "Just checking in if you still wanted to go out sometime" Never say anything upset like why are you ignoring me etc you never know what could of happened and dont want to ruin your chances or she may not be interested but change her mind later just play it cool! :-D
Nikki Sahagin Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I'm really sorry to say it sounds like she just gave out her number maybe to avoid conflict but with no real intention of staying in touch. I would maybe just send a message to say, "Hey, hoped to hear from you so get in touch if you would like to as well. Otherwise it was great meeting you and take care". Very sucky though. I'm sorry to hear it.
Polak Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Never really heard of a girl giving away her number just to avoid conflict, but seems perfectly legit. Hold off for a while, and if there still is no response, drop her (it will signal that she isn't interested despite what she said).
Procrastinat0r Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I've given my number to people and then just got too nervous to go any further. Maybe she's just nervous. I wouldn't message her too much. She already knows you're interested by the messages you already sent. Let her make the next move.
Shaun-Dro Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I've given my number to people and then just got too nervous to go any further. Maybe she's just nervous. I wouldn't message her too much. She already knows you're interested by the messages you already sent. Let her make the next move. Listen to the advice of the lone female here^^
Assasda Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Never send a message "just saying to say hi" because you already called. Send a messge that says, "contact me whenever you have some time, and we'll have some fun." and leave it at that. Get the ball in her court. If she doesnt contact you, move on
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