SJC2008 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 (edited) Met a woman through a social group, hung out with mutual friends a couple times. She initiated hanging out with me via FB when I commented on a post she had so I PM'd her for her number and when I texted her I said let's meet up and get reacquainted before we do xyz that we discused on facebook. We met up for some pool and drinks (I paid), seemed to be having a good time and we decided to go get something to eat. Well, when we we're heading to the restaurant she called me and said she was tired so was going to go home but she had a really good time and said mabye we could do something next week. Grant it it was late but my thought was she bailed. Given her bailing on me I didn't contact her at all after our date. I mean why couldn't she have told me in the bar that she was tired? Anyway, she texted me 3 days later and we made small talk. I initiated a couple days later and texted her in the day and called her in the eve to ask her when she was available again to go out. She said for sure the next day but wouldn't know about the weekend as she was starting a new job a couple of days later and would have to figure out her sched. Well, unfortunately I had plans to go golfing the next day but wouldn't know for sure until the morning and I told her I'd text her to let her know. My plans went through so I texted her saying I'm going to get to go golfing so we'll have to wait until you figure out your sched and she said ok have fun. Ok so 5 days go by so I text her and she responds instantly, we make small talk, I ask her if she figured out her sched and she did so we made plans for the next day, yesterday. Well, in the morning she texts saying she can't make it and If I would like to come over for dinner some time during the week so I said sure, I don't have any solid plans so whatever day works for you. Made some more small talk and that was that. Well that was yesterday and I haven't heard anyting from her. I don't know if I played this one too cool or if she's a flake. Sorry about the long post, there are some other tid bits that my help that I'll throw in if the thread picks up. I tried to keep it as short as I could. Edited October 18, 2013 by SJC2008 edit
hasekninh Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Just give her a week, after that text her about going out or her dinner plan. If that doesn't work, sorry man move on.
Author SJC2008 Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 Ok so I texted her the day after this thread. A quick 'How's it going' and she was short and didn't ask me anything back so I dropped it. Well she texted me earlier so I'm thinking wtf? You flake one me twice and fall off the radar for 9 days? Am I backup guy or something? I was done but should I jump back in?
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