Chris715 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 Does it make me petty that I'm jealous she's found someone else? Granted I don't know if they're still together because I went NC a couple months ago when I first saw it on her Facebook, but damn is it tempting to check. She gives me this sob story when we're still in contact of "oh I hate it at school here, I can never meet anyone, etc." and then like a month into a new semester she's found someone new and I'm left completely in the dust and just like that, replaced. I wish someone would treat her the way she treated me so she knows what I'm dealing with but nope. She's most likely happy as can be at her school, living the ****ing life, doing well in classes, and I'm stuck behind in the ****ing mess of a life that she helped create for me. I'm not blaming all of my problems on her, but she definitely had a hand in my depression and my current self esteem/confidence issues. Seriously how does she go on her merry way and find someone so easily, probably making her 100x happier then I ever could, and here I am unable to find someone special myself? Really ****ing pissed at her tonight. Guess it beats contacting her, begging, and sobbing again huh?
Stealth3 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 This sucks dude, I'm in a similar boat. I honestly think we did this to ourselves by not sticking to NC. who the f cares what she is doing or who is doing. Next time I get dumped I'm just gonna show her the door and go nc immediately. No more begging, trying to talk and understand...no more logic. Just pure bc. 1
Chi townD Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I'm not blaming all of my problems on her, but she definitely had a hand in my depression and my current self esteem/confidence issues. Ya done? GOOD!! Now, we are in charge of our own happiness. What have you done to make yourself happy? You have over 100 posts. So, you should know about NC; but also, you need to make positive changes in conjunction with NC. Have you been eating clean and sleeping well? Going to the gym? Burning off all those stressors and frustrations? Did you buy new clothes? Get a new hairstyle? Get new hobbies? Travel? Live a full life? Constantly busy? 2
h0000 Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 im not sure how/why you guys broke up but maybe she secretly think you were the best bf? its normal to feel down and inferior.i do too,every now and then..i wanna know how to stop beating ourselves up as well.. if your sad that she has a better life, only advice i have is make your life better as well..
Author Chris715 Posted October 18, 2013 Author Posted October 18, 2013 Did you ask out that cute girl in your class? Not yet. I've been talking to her every chance I've gotten (only have 2 classes a week with her) and we're getting to know each other better. Also we have mutual friends on Facebook, so I'll probably add her soon. But I know, you're going to say I should just go ahead and ask her out for coffee... And you're right.
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