BritneyLynn Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 We broke up just a few weeks ago, the wounds are still fresh but, I've been doing my best to carry on. He wasn't a great boyfriend or really a bad one either, just a man I became comfortable with more than anything. I went to the doctor today for a check up and come to find out, I'm pregnant. We had a miscarriage a while back and part of me feels like this is my gift for all the pain I endured then. But now, we aren't even together how do I handle this? I know I need to tell him but, him being the way he is he will just tell me to terminate it. I'm not religious but I don't know how I feel about the "a" word but at the same token, how do I raise a child with someone I'm not even with? I just wanted to be over this and move on with my life but my emotions are pulling me in a million directions. I need help my friends...
todreaminblue Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Do what your heart tells you to, do not terminate a pregnancy on someone elses wishes or feel coerced into going against how you feel about abortion....what you instinctually feel has merit...........you will regret that decision to do something that another tells you too especially with this situation...i hope whatever happens and whatever you decide you are happy with your decision...... you do have an obligation to inform him but not to do what he tells you to...that is your choice...i wish you well..deb
Author BritneyLynn Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 Do what your heart tells you to, do not terminate a pregnancy on someone elses wishes or feel coerced into going against how you feel about abortion....what you instinctually feel has merit...........you will regret that decision to do something that another tells you too especially with this situation...i hope whatever happens and whatever you decide you are happy with your decision...... you do have an obligation to inform him but not to do what he tells you to...that is your choice...i wish you well..deb Thank you. I'm really at a loss. I don't want to bring a child into this world in a broken home and I know that getting back together isn't an option. He's an alcoholic and just not the person I want to be with regardless. I'm in shock mode now though, maybe a few days to think it through before I go to him will help 1
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