Gumbaang98 Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 3 months in to a long distance relationship and dumped out do the blue, the night he was supposed to be arriving to spend a weekend for his birthday. He's "not excited to see me" and "knows I need commitment and he has commitment issues." He says "I don't know what's wrong with me. Maybe I need to talk to someone. You're a really great person. I hate myself for making you cry and breaking your heart. Everything is moving too fast and I'm scared ****less!" So instead of talking and working on the issues, he dumped me. Fed ex'd back the things I had at his place. I sent him his birthday present that was very personal with a note about the gift and about some thoughts I had. I had originally asked to remain friends, to which he agreed, but I think he's not ready for that. I had me this family, friends, been supportive of his need to still do things on his own and not see me every weekend. Never pushed for more or gave him any problems with his need to still do his thing. I'm just so confused as to how I could have been so wrong about someone. We had so much in common and life goals were the same. Sex was incredible. Our time together was relaxed and enjoyable. Heartbreaking.
emi Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 let him go. He cant give u any relationship in the future, why waste your time if u supposed ur goal in relationship are marriage and security.
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