alison1 Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 I am in college and I use the gym on campus. I wear yoga pants/leggings and a hanes t-shirt with a sports bra to the gym. Nothing revealing. I have a regular sized butt. Not too big, but not small. I barely wear makeup. I pass by the dorms as I walk to the gym, and this guy and his friends are always chilling near the window. I go to the gym at a certain hour because that's the only time I could go. When this guy sees me he shouts "hey girl in the yoga pants!" etc. it is really awkward and embarrassing and I'm scared to look up at them. I don't know who this guy is and his friends are, but that is the only route to get to the gym. Why is he doing this and what can i do to stop this?
ConstantVoyager Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Just yell at them to kock it off. Is there really no other route? You couldn't circle around the building?
Cabinet Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 If you don't want to walk another way or just ignore him.... then yell back "Hey Guy with the tiny penis!" That should take care of it. 1
Imported Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 He probably has fallen madly in love with you upon seeing you the very first instant. Or you're just some girl in yoga pants that he wouldn't be able to pick out of a line up of other girls in yoga pants. 1
odin673 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 (edited) There is a girl that lives in my building that always wears yoga pants when the weather permits. Me and my roommate refer to her as "yogapants". She must have 10 pairs! A common point of view among men is that women that wear yoga pants a lot are attention whores that want everyone to check out their rear ends. They really leave little to imagination. I'm not saying you're an attention whore, but the reality is that most people will put a label on you based on such things. There is really nothing you can do to stop this. Insulting him may work, but it may also egg him on. Edited October 19, 2013 by odin673
Criticality Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Why is he doing this and what can i do to stop this? IDK... If Id had to take a wild guess it could be that... He's doing it cause you're wearing yoga pants? You should obviously report him for harassment, and after the campus police takes the report and stops laughing, they'd probably tell you to put on your big girl panties instead next time you go the gym. 1
Criticality Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 They should start selling yoga pants with a warning label saying "Warning: Garment may make men stare at your ass". For some weird reason, many women seem to think of yoga pants as something comfortable and completely innocent, and get surprised when guys ogle them. Surprise: Guys don't care whether its comfortable. They don't care much either what the intended purpose of your yoga pants may be. They do care however, about the fact that its super skin tight and shows off more of your behind than most jeans and many swimsuits.
aussietigerwolf Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 either ignore him or yell "hey guy with the socks down his pants"
todreaminblue Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 wear track pants and huge visible headphones............or on the back of your t shirt screen print rack off and point to it when you walk past...subliminal silence says so much..they may get pissed keep your intution open for flying eggs adn do a kung fu panda move if they throw them..deb
emva07 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Headphones are a girl's best friend. When I go for runs and stuff I always get cat calls from cars going by, with headphones I am oblivious to this. Of course, not safe to wear them at night since you have to be alert.
D-Lish Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Wear a parka, or a Burka. I doubt the Burka gets a lot of shout-outs. 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 He's probably not trying to get with you. He's probably joking around with his friends. I'm sure they do this to everyone that passes by. I used to do this with my friends in high school and college. We NEVER meant it as a pickup. Only did it for lulz. 1
EasyHeart Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 This is a way for young guys who travel in packs to get attention. I doubt he's dangerous, he's just a dick.
theothersully Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Just answer him with a bitchy, "what?!?!" Whatever he says after that,be an ultra bitch and say ,"gross.... no!" That should do it.
Criticality Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Just answer him with a bitchy, "what?!?!" Whatever he says after that,be an ultra bitch and say ,"gross.... no!" That should do it. What if he yells "You seem like a woman who appreciates the finer things in life! Like good quality stretchy yoga pants! And a guy that treats you with dignity and respect!"
SpiralOut Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 He probably does that to all the girls. I would just wear a sweatshirt wrapped around my waist so he can't stare at my ass.
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