FaithInTheDark Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 theres this guy ive been seeing for over a month and i do like him... ive noticed he is quite passive with things which can be quite frustrating. .. but he is a nice guy... lately ive noticed he hasnt been texting me as much which is how we communicate since we live in diff towns.. tonight i said it seems like i havent been hearing much from him and he said im sorry ive been spending most of my time sleeping or working..... he works night shifts. i want to know how he feels about me .. im wondering if just telling a guy you like him is a goid idea... ive heard this might take away my mystrey or feed his ego.. im just tired of cat and mouse games ..id like to how he feels about me im all for taking it slow ..we have only hung out three times in past4 weeks but i just hate wasting my time... how can i go about this?
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Basically what you're saying is you're desperate to the point you want to ask him out right directly. I mean, you've seen the guy for a month and you don't know if he likes you and he doesn't know if you like him? are you serious? If he's not making the moves, showing the interest and instigating the "dates" then the guy isn't that into you, stop using your paranoia to justify "cat and mouse" games, it's just that he's not that into you...now you're just begging for an excuse. It's called "dating"....you date, if it feels right and he's interested you keep going if he's semi-interested or not communicating or showing strong interested and you're feeling all "confused" because you've been on 4 dates and don't even know if the guy likes you....if you're looking for something like a relationship, yeah I'd say that's a waste of your time. Otherwise just "hold on" and "gives things a chance". You know how you don't play games? you communicate, you express how you feel and if the need isn't being met then boom, you go, you move, you don't linger, you don't hope, you don't wish, you don't wait, you don't pray, you don't wonder...but at this point, you should already have had an idea of interest at the least. You "like" the guy? congratulations? 2
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