mysticalstar Posted December 8, 2004 Posted December 8, 2004 Hey All! I've got a question!! Well i've been dating the same guy for about the past 4 months. He is a very friendly guy when it comes to his friends that are girls and I am a very friendly person as well with my guy friends, however, it would never go any further than being just frineds with these other people. My boyfriend has not had many girlfriends, but has dated off and on. We are starting to get to the serious stage as time goes on and he seems to really like me. Well there is one girl that he has as a friend that I am kind of nervous about. She is 3 years younger than him and is a bit immature. She doesn't live around us right now because we are at a different college. A few days ago I saw that he made a phone call to her. Right after that she messaged him saying how "it was so good to hear from him and how he has no idea how much she misses him." Now that really upset me but I didn't say anything to my boyfriend because I do not want him to think I was snooping. Now I really don't think I should be worried, but I am. This really upset me. He did not message her back though which made me a little more relieved. I asked him tonight if he still talked to that girl and he said yes he does off and on. Maybe she was just asying that because she did miss him as a friend??? He did date her for a brief time too. Now i am still friends with some of my ex's, but I dont talk to them like that. Do you think I need to be worried and keep my guard up ? Or do you think i am overreacting? I could use some advice! thanks so much.
spiceman Posted December 8, 2004 Posted December 8, 2004 I wouldnt worry about it girl. He is answering your question truthfully. Besides, you shouldnt have to have your guard up, once it does then you become someone else that is only there to give him the 3rd degree. Relax and enjoy him =)
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