christine07 Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 So, I texted my ex this past Friday who is getting married this weekend (the 19th) to the women he left me for. I can't say it was the nicest text, he hurt my soul. I wrote: "Hey congrats, 8 more days. I still can't believe you are marrying the women you cheated on (with me two years into their relationship, never told her), good luck waking up to that guilt for the rest of your life" Usually when I'm this much of a bitch I never get s response and I wasn't expecting one, but I got it.. we started to chat.. and then he got super creepy.. He started asking me to come see him since his fiance' was out of town all weekend, even set up a time and place, sent me pictures, talked about all our old sexual days, talked about making a baby with me, and much worse things... I just let it all slide and kept reverting the conversation back to his marriage, being like "You won't need me, you will have a wife soon, she can give you babies" but it really was creeping me out. He even told me he loved me very much and was sorry I never felt that from him.. I am shocked, and confused to why he is even saying stuff like this to me when he is getting married so soon. I know it could just be the typical pre wedding jitters and crap and that is fine, but it also makes me so mad! If I caught my future fiance' doing this I would be so angry... Any input to what it means or why he is even getting married when he is such a pig?? Ugh.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Why the hell were you texting him in the first place? Seems pretty inappropriate on your part. Of course what he said was inappropriate, but you should have never sent that text in the first place. I think you need to take a lap. 1
Author christine07 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 ^ya your right.. I'm the terrible person in this situation. Thanks!
2sunny Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 So, I texted my ex this past Friday who is getting married this weekend (the 19th) to the women he left me for. I can't say it was the nicest text, he hurt my soul. I wrote: "Hey congrats, 8 more days. I still can't believe you are marrying the women you cheated on (with me two years into their relationship, never told her), good luck waking up to that guilt for the rest of your life" Usually when I'm this much of a bitch I never get s response and I wasn't expecting one, but I got it.. we started to chat.. and then he got super creepy.. He started asking me to come see him since his fiance' was out of town all weekend, even set up a time and place, sent me pictures, talked about all our old sexual days, talked about making a baby with me, and much worse things... I just let it all slide and kept reverting the conversation back to his marriage, being like "You won't need me, you will have a wife soon, she can give you babies" but it really was creeping me out. He even told me he loved me very much and was sorry I never felt that from him.. I am shocked, and confused to why he is even saying stuff like this to me when he is getting married so soon. I know it could just be the typical pre wedding jitters and crap and that is fine, but it also makes me so mad! If I caught my future fiance' doing this I would be so angry... Any input to what it means or why he is even getting married when he is such a pig?? Ugh. Hmmmm, really? Just really? I have to ask - why would YOU put ANY time, effort and energy into even sending him a text? Let go of your PAST! 2
Simon Phoenix Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 ^ya your right.. I'm the terrible person in this situation. Thanks! So now you are going to play victim? Dear Lord. What you did was sketchy and stupid and you know it. The fact that he is a cheating POS is irrelevant -- you opened this can of worms, not him. You can't control how other people act, you can only control how you act. And you acted inappropriately.
Author christine07 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 I'm agreeing with you.. not being sarcastic.. Thanks
Author christine07 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 And no, I dont put any thought into my texts when drunk and upset.. just like my posts it looks like.. sorry for wasting everyone's time.
2sunny Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Stop drinking. And stop typing while drinking. And most of all don't text him - block his number!
Ireallydontknow Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 And you aren't telling this guys wife why? 1
forgetmenot75 Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 And you aren't telling this guys wife why? why would she?? None of her business.
Chi townD Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 I agree with most everyone that texting wasn't worth losing everything you've gained in NC with some drunken texts, but I'm not gonna bash you on it. You aren't the first to break NC and you won't be the last. But, I would have saved those texts and pics and sent them to his fiancé. Clearly this guy isn't marriage material!
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