MissLY Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 This is a follow-up thread to a previous one entitled "Annoyed. Need to vent." Long story short, I have the biggest crush on a guy who happens to be great friends with my brother. He admitted to liking me as well but because of the fact that he and my brother are friends, he can't pursue it any further. Now of course I'm disappointed and slightly annoyed. It's rare when I find somebody that I really like and now that I did, I can't have him. I know, I know, normally I'd move on and not sweat it one bit. But I cannot and I repeat CANNOT stop thinking about him. I'm currently in school and it was hard for me to concentrate in class, as he was on my mind. I hate this. I don't like the idea of having to let him go. I would actually be fine with having him as a friend. Seriously. I find him to be a sweet guy who likes to have fun so I'd love to remain in touch. I just don't want to come off like some crazed obsessed chick, that's all. The worst thing is when you wanna be cool with someone yet they think you badly wanna bone them. Now that's not me. If anything, I'd want a relationship but if that can't work, friendship is fine with me. Have any of you been in the same boat? How do you transition from initially wanting a relationship with someone to just wanting to be friendly? I'd love to hear your thoughts.
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