Mark1 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Me: 24/m Her: 40/f Cliffs: * Professor at my university * Did not have her as a teacher * Graduated 2 years ago * Long story short, asked her out to coffee * We went * Flirted a bit, I touched her hand, walked her back to her car etc * Kissed her on the cheek afterwards, and asked her if she'd like to go out for a drink sometime. She said sure, but she doesn't drink. * By the time I got home, she had already texted me saying she had a great time, and we should do it again How do I make sure she knows I'm not just a really nice former student/graduate? I feel that as a prof, she might think I'm just a really nice student looking to keep some connections at my alma mater, who happens to be kinda touchy.
theothersully Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 You're all set. You've already done everything. Just step up the intimacy/sexual tension on the next date. 1
todreaminblue Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 (edited) she said she had a nice time and wanted to do it again her being 40 years of age , she allowed you to kiss her cheek and didnt pull you up.....so you dont have to play games,dont be aggressive but be honest... tell her honestly how you feel and what you are looking for with her.......some older women wouldnt make moves on younger guys unless there was a definite interest or she had a moment of kamikazeness so you might have too......i wish you luck..deb Edited October 17, 2013 by todreaminblue
90s kid Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 If you were flirting with her and being touchy feely, then I'm sure she already knows you're interested in her. It sounds like she wants to see you again, so ask her out and see where it goes. 1
romeosadventure Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 You're thinking too much about this dude....she accepted first time, wants to do it a second time, so don't worry about what she might be thinking. Truth is, if you're an attractive guy, she's probably thinking about getting physical...a woman's sexual prime is in her 40s
devilish innocent Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 If you're flirting, kissing her cheek, asking her out multiple times in a row, then she knows you like her as more than a friend. If you want to do some additional things to drive home the point, you could hand her a rose next time you're meeting with her. Complimenting her on her looks or other things you like would also help.
Divasu Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Me: 24/m Her: 40/f Cliffs: * Professor at my university * Did not have her as a teacher * Graduated 2 years ago * Long story short, asked her out to coffee * We went * Flirted a bit, I touched her hand, walked her back to her car etc * Kissed her on the cheek afterwards, and asked her if she'd like to go out for a drink sometime. She said sure, but she doesn't drink. * By the time I got home, she had already texted me saying she had a great time, and we should do it again How do I make sure she knows I'm not just a really nice former student/graduate? I feel that as a prof, she might think I'm just a really nice student looking to keep some connections at my alma mater, who happens to be kinda touchy. Tricky situation. A. She's a professor, you're a Student B. Age difference Not saying age matters BUT, some women feel weird about dating someone that age (ie: 40's vs. a man in his 20's). I know I would, just being honest. So having said that, good luck...
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