send_me_flowers Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 hello friends a little update its nearly 10 weeks now im coming on abit better healing nicely id say some days are great and others not that good but not as bad as they was.. that is thanks to this forum and the kind souls who has helped me when i thought i was sure to die with my broken heart im so thankfully to everyone who has took time to help me when they are suffering to... from my heart a BIG THANK YOU TO YOU ALL. many people when they are feeling better dont give back, so thats my way of giving back this problem im having is ive seen 9 pyschics upto now i know alot eh! lol different ones dont know each other at all and they say my ex will be back but not to take him back as you will regret it. do you think this rings some truth or just a bunch of hocus pocus lol im excited to see the replys :bunny: would appercaiate your thoughts 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 NC!!! Forget psychics. Forget your ex. Work on you. There's no mystery in the recipe for successful healing and recovery!!
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 NC!!! Forget psychics. Forget your ex. Work on you. There's no mystery in the recipe for successful healing and recovery!! i am so much better than i was. i have gone NC for nearly 10 weeks wouldnt dream of breaking it it works a charm thanks for the reply though
JDPT Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 I've never seen a psychic in my life. I was actually so close to seeing one about a month or so ago as I needed "answers" and was simply curious. I personally can't subscribe to any of that stuff. I pave my own way and don't need anyone who may be "gifted" to tell me what the future holds for me. Don't continue to waste money, instead, use that money to buy yourself something nice or treat yourself. 2
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 I've never seen a psychic in my life. I was actually so close to seeing one about a month or so ago as I needed "answers" and was simply curious. I personally can't subscribe to any of that stuff. I pave my own way and don't need anyone who may be "gifted" to tell me what the future holds for me. Don't continue to waste money, instead, use that money to buy yourself something nice or treat yourself. this is true i suppose at the time i was doing it to get answers i was so badly missing him. im not going to see them no more what i am going to do is focus on postive thoughts thanks jd 1
Eddie007 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 I've never really believed in that sort of thing but I know many people who swear by them. I'd say for the most part they are playing the odds. Most ex's do come back into your life at some point if it was a long meaningful relationship (this is just my opinion from reading many posts on the subject). However that does not aways mean you get back together as I'm sure you know. I'd say the odds are a lot better you will cross paths again then not, again just my opinion. 1
barky2 Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Lol I'll let you in on a little bit of truth about this The minute you walk out, the minute you hit a red light,the minute you stop at a store...it all changes. Every single one of my exs have come out one 10+years later It all doesn't matter. Continue with your life because it's the only one you have You seem to be progressing well,continue that path and you'll be fine. Barky 1
ProfXavier Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Yes I would trust the psychics, especially if you went to 9. Make sure you take their advice. If they say dont contact him, then dont. Live your life normally. Use this time to be relieved and live as though you could without him. 1
melell Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 hello friends a little update its nearly 10 weeks now im coming on abit better healing nicely id say some days are great and others not that good but not as bad as they was.. that is thanks to this forum and the kind souls who has helped me when i thought i was sure to die with my broken heart im so thankfully to everyone who has took time to help me when they are suffering to... from my heart a BIG THANK YOU TO YOU ALL. many people when they are feeling better dont give back, so thats my way of giving back this problem im having is ive seen 9 pyschics upto now i know alot eh! lol different ones dont know each other at all and they say my ex will be back but not to take him back as you will regret it. do you think this rings some truth or just a bunch of hocus pocus lol im excited to see the replys :bunny: would appercaiate your thoughts Personally I don't believe in psychics. But my friends have raved about this one lady, and apparently everything she has said has come to pass. Her name is Claudia estelle may, I think she has a website. I am highly skeptical though, but it is weird that they all have said the same thing. Anyway, make sure not to spend too much money! 1
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 I've never really believed in that sort of thing but I know many people who swear by them. I'd say for the most part they are playing the odds. Most ex's do come back into your life at some point if it was a long meaningful relationship (this is just my opinion from reading many posts on the subject). However that does not aways mean you get back together as I'm sure you know. I'd say the odds are a lot better you will cross paths again then not, again just my opinion. hey thanks i dont know i just went to see as one said that he be back than i wanted to see if another say he be back than so than i thought werid unless they are saying the same thing as each other this year or its true.. im not fussed about him no more thoug so he wil have a shock
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 Lol I'll let you in on a little bit of truth about this The minute you walk out, the minute you hit a red light,the minute you stop at a store...it all changes. Every single one of my exs have come out one 10+years later It all doesn't matter. Continue with your life because it's the only one you have You seem to be progressing well,continue that path and you'll be fine. Barky hey barky hope your ok im getting there looking after myself started the gym and im doing it all for me, im focus on my life his dont matter to me anymore. mines more important as you say you only have one life gotta live it 1
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 Yes I would trust the psychics, especially if you went to 9. Make sure you take their advice. If they say dont contact him, then dont. Live your life normally. Use this time to be relieved and live as though you could without him. yes they said that and also dont take him back. but time will tell and in time also i wont want to talk to him im starting to feel postive and better and living my life setting little goals for myself and it seems to be working, i dont need someone who doesnt need me
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 Personally I don't believe in psychics. But my friends have raved about this one lady, and apparently everything she has said has come to pass. Her name is Claudia estelle may, I think she has a website. I am highly skeptical though, but it is weird that they all have said the same thing. Anyway, make sure not to spend too much money! most people i have spoke to dont believe in them. i may try one more because i think 9 is an odd number lol but thats my lot than but ill keep you posted to see if they say the same
Author send_me_flowers Posted October 20, 2013 Author Posted October 20, 2013 im so heartbroken i lost my dog after 11 years 2 thing i loved with all my heart have gone i dont know what to do
aybc123 Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) OP: Stop seeing the psychics, chances are you or your ex will contact each other again at some point and yes you probably shouldnt get back together with them and by the time you do reconnect neither of you will probably want to. On the topic of psychics though, I used to live in australia for a couple of years, had been in relationships before but never truly in love. Anyway, was head over heels in love with this girl, so intensely that im still not sure ill ever feel that way again. With her for a year, planning on going back home to the uk for a year and then moving out to be with her and live happily ever after etc. A few weeks before I leave she convinces me to go see a psychic she and her sister have been to who was supposed to be very good. I didn't believe in any of that stuff (still don't btw). But I distinctly remember the psychic telling me my relationship would be over within 3 months. Now at the time this was unfathomable and I brushed it off, because we were young in love and both wanted to spend our lives together. I tried to tell the psychic that but she was pretty adamant. Anyway I didnt tell my gf what she said (just some of the other stuff that I cant remember). But sure enough we broke up after I'd been back in the UK for about 2-3 months and I never ended up moving out there. Perhaps more relevant is that i was completely heart broken and devastated as only someone losing their first love can be and didn't think i'd ever love or meet someone again. But now I couldnt imagine being with that person again (though we're still friends and fond of each other). And instead am heartbroken over another girl and can't imagine life being as good without her. But now I know that eventually it will be, because if i got through it the first time then frankly i can get through anything, and that keeps me going. Edited October 20, 2013 by aybc123
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