srmano Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 (edited) My ex and i broke up a little over a month ago, we were together for a decent bit of time and she was the one who ended it. We both admitted to each other we were still attracted to each other and we've gone out for a few coffees/breakfasts together, one or two were my idea and she's asked to go out a few times even to dinner. One time after we went out to breakfast she later remarked that we had to go out for her birthday. Everytime i mention another girl she gets curious as to their intentions. Every time i bring up the prospect of me just moving on she will stay silent and have nothing to say. The one time we did kind of talk about it she sort of indicated she was open to the prospect of giving it a second chance, but that things would have to start from scratch. We catch the bus into uni and she'll regularly fall asleep on my lap or shoulder and give me the occasional platonic kiss. I'l occasionally flirt and she'll laugh and then say "inappropriate" and after which, ill remark how i don't care and she'll say "yea, but i have to say it!". Thing is i don't have a clue if she'd just being friendly as she did want me to be friends and i've told her thats not going to happen or if she really does want to give it a second chance. Edited October 16, 2013 by srmano
devilish innocent Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 It really seems like she just wants to keep you around as a friend. She's taking you for granted thinking that you can just always maintain what you've got right now. If you're not okay with that, then you should let her know. Otherwise, you're likely to be stuck in this situation for a long time. 1
flight E Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 Very true. Cut her loose if u like her more than a friend. She how she takes it
Author srmano Posted October 19, 2013 Author Posted October 19, 2013 i sort of hinted to her things won't continue like they have been, she herself has said that she's in a really bad spot right now. To be honest and she wont take it to well, even though we broke up a while ago we still talk everyday, and im the only one she talks about her problems with, but shes started noticing that i've backed off a bit, and didn't seem to happy about it. Which is why i was going to wait till just after her birthday (in a week) when her exams are over before i tell her. We talked a bit last night and she said " this is majorly exaggerating.. but its like everything you do is in spite of me because we arnt together. When she knows she's seeing me she dresses up and does her hair up the way i liked it and even admitted she does it because i like it. She'd made it clear after we broke up how she wanted to be friends and that we might date again in the future, wheres im made it clear before we even started dating that i don't stay in contact with any of my ex's.
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