Lizrd3000 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 I wrote a letter to my ex pointing out why we wouldn't work out anyway, and things that bothered me, but still admitting that i loved her. just the plain truth. i've been trying to ignore the fact that i still love her, but it seems much easier to accept the facts instead of pushing them away and replacing them with superficial ones, like saying ''I hate her'' instead of ''I love her''. just a tip for those going through a break-up, it seems that accepting everything is much healthier for your mind than pushing thoughts away and lying to yourself etc. I did not send the letter though. I put it on a pile of other papers where I wrote other stuff on. You can be your own biggest enemy OR friend, I remember someone telling me this when I was younger, and I'm starting to realize the truth of this sentence, lol. I'm so silly. 2
JoelBarish Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 All I can say is you're doing good. How long ago was your break up again? How long NC? 1
AnyaNova Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 I can say that my recovery speeded up immensely when I stopped trying to pretend that I didn't love him and want him back. And now, time, thought, and circumstance really have shown me that we really wouldn't have been good together. I think from now on, I'm going to be a fan of the shared perceiving type mentality. But anyway, I think it is only when we begin to face the truth that we be able to begin to deal with it. Right on! 1
Author Lizrd3000 Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 2 weeks and 4 days ago.. but she was cold for a month prior to the BU, so I kind of started grieving before that. been NC from the start, but we talked for like half an hour on whatsapp after 4 days with her initiating, after that I just completely ignored her. she's asking mutual friends about me now, but I don't really care.
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