LittleDemon Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 How could a guy initiate things with a girl he knew and try to date her but with lack of effort on her end it becomes a booty call. How is it possible for him to have sex with her for two years and not have feelings? Why would a guy put up with drama and bs from a booty call if she didn't mean something to him ? Is sex really worth all the fighting to him? And why would he get jealous of other guys if it was just a booty call?
TheGuard13 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Just because there's a booty call doesn't mean the guy has no feelings about it, or the girl.
Author LittleDemon Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 If he had feelings or still has them then why wouldn't he make more of an effort to date?
MalachiX Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 I'm guessing the "girl" in question is you, no? Anyway, some people are certainly able to have sex with someone and not develop feelings or them. Usually it's when they find someone who they find attractive but are not falling in love with.
TheGuard13 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 If he had feelings or still has them then why wouldn't he make more of an effort to date? Because either the feelings aren't that strong, or he has some other reason he doesn't want to/can't. Insecurity, selfishness, other issues, etc.
Author LittleDemon Posted October 17, 2013 Author Posted October 17, 2013 Haha yeah the girl is me, but I want to know about similar situations and how the guy may have felt and why. I don't think its always the same answer.
ScienceGal Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 I don't separate feelings from sex. I wouldn't sleep with a man I'm not interested in committing to, and even if I am rearing to go, he has to be ready to commit to me as well. I've misjudged once before, and I moved on quickly. It's all about finding a good match for you. Stop worrying about what he's thinking or why he behaved the way he did. Take responsibility for your own actions. Your life won't get better until you start making better choices.
kendallk Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 If he had feelings or still has them then why wouldn't he make more of an effort to date? A lot of guys are possessive with who they f*** doesn't mean they want to date you. Any guy who can get sex without commitment will do it. They like to avoid anything where there are obligations and have to put in effort. Men don't like relationships they just like f***ing and having women stroke their ego. Everything else they do is just for the sex and having a girl tend to them.
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