Drconfused Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 I met her online. We chatted long enough before I asked for her number. We finally met after 4 months. She is a typical Indian girl with a tinge of modernization. She had a Gud figure but not very much pretty. I was nvr fascinated by her. Still I met her every week only because she was interested. I don't know why I proposed her. We got physical a good number of times , bt we nvr had real sex. Now I don't want to take it any further, but she wants. I told her there's no future in d reln. But she still wants me. I must say she is not d one I dreamt about. Once I told her I want to end it & she didn't reply. It's hurting me deep inside. I wanna move on , but can't. Any advice abt what I should do will b highly appreciated. thanks in advance.
emva07 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 It hurts you because you assume it's causing her pain (but for all we know, she's over it)......but don't beat yourself up about it. You can't be with someone just to spare their feelings. What about YOUR happiness? It's YOUR life, and YOUR future. If you are unhappy in a relationship, sooner or later it will end....better sooner than later, when there are more feelings involved.
Author Drconfused Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 Bt I am a little confused if I am gonna miss her after I break up.
emva07 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Missing is normal. You became used to her but staying with someone out of habit isn't happiness. 1
Bigcitydreamer Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Bt I am a little confused if I am gonna miss her after I break up. I think that's the hardest part about breaking up with someone. You always wonder if you are going to regret it or miss them. I think if you can get over the first few weeks of missing them then you can find a happier more fulfilling alternative.
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