Beachlife88 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Ok known this guy a year. We were casually seeing each other for awhile. Talked almost every day he'd tect me he misses me telling me I'm beautiful and smart. Had sex twice and hung out plenty of times with no sex. Last month he's been distant. Don't think it's due to sex bc we slept together awhile ago. Told me before I made him happier than he's been in a long time. We've barely talked past month. Only thing I can think is. I never initiate hang outs and I don't say a lot of sweet things to him like he does to me. (I get scared to be open even though I really like him). I've tried the past month moving on from this guy but I can't. I wanna text him that I miss him, but I'm so scared of looking clingy, dumb or annoying. (He's 26 I'm 27) ugh what should I do. By the way I don't think he was just using me. I've been in FWB situations. The guy doesn't act like this. I wanna tell him I miss him but will be think I mean I miss sex bc I do miss him we were never official
4MyOwnGood Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Why not send him a simple message "want to get lunch/dinner/whatever sometime this week?" or something to that effect? Less risky than telling him you miss him, but lets him know indirectly that you're thinking of him. He may have gotten just as scared as you are now of looking clingy, if he was initiating contact more often than you did. I have an unwritten rule (which I don't always follow): try to connect with someone 3 times, if they don't reciprocate by that point, I tend to back off and wait for their signal, or start the process of "moving on." 1
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