Sweet108 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Ex brought me back three regional canned items from a faraway place as gifts. His communication today? he's concerned that he gave me one can that had a dent from being juked around in his luggage. Yes, people he is concerned one can of the three was dented, no concern for my emotional pain. He seemed concerned I would be upset ABOUT A DENTED CAN. It takes all I can manage during times of the day at work when my grief comes over me in waves and I have to repeat a mantra to stay professional and this is his what he mentions. I would like to hear he is concerned about me. I would like to hear he made a horrible mistake and blew it when he broke it off with me. I would like to hear him honestly and genuinely ask for another chance then prove it with actions. I would like to hear that he wants to start a new beginning with me. I want to hear him apologize for ending just like that, without willing to discuss or work on things. I want my home and office full of roses from him. (ok gotcha that last one is all fantasy and would never happen) I don't want to be demoted to Friend Zone after a year of exclusivity where I met all of his friends and family and now have a constant reminder in my face that I was not good enough for him as girlfriend any longer. To be fair he has not seen my grieving emotions. But geeze, still, A CAN?! Really? wtf?
Mr Scorpio Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Is he an articulate individual? Is his message potentially him trying to start a dialouge? If not, then you don't want him being concerned about you, because that would be false hope. Breadcrumbs.
Assasda Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Call him and tell him that you want to get back together
Mr Scorpio Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Call him and tell him that you want to get back together Why should her response to a message about a dented can be "please take me back! I don't care if it's dented!"? Seems a little... desperate?
Assasda Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Why should her response to a message about a dented can be "please take me back! I don't care if it's dented!"? Seems a little... desperate? Her message oozes that she wants to get back with him, so she should just call him and tell him that she wants to get back together
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