dumped2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 (edited) I'm going on my yearly trip to an island for my birthday. Exw actually has a ticket I bought but after she dropped the D bomb on me in July she of course is not invited. I will have 2 seats and that is good. If Delta sells the ticket that I bought I will bit*h unless it's a hot girl. The exw of one month wants to stay at my house while I'm gone and watch my cat. She will bring the dog that I love and she took from me. I am doing nc and she doesn't understand why I won't talk to her. She will text and call and I don't reply. No kids involved. She just wanted to be alone after 20 years, 16 married. Question, should I let her stay here for a week or should I get a pet sitter for the cat? Thanks for listening. Edited October 15, 2013 by dumped2013 left out word
Assasda Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 You'll look like a stronger, bigger man, if you allow her to stay there. Like you can still function amicably with people you have mixed feelings about. If you want to get a pet sitter, that's fine too. If you do let her stay the house, give her some "pet sitting" cash when you come back, so she know's that there were no hard feelings
Author dumped2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 She already has most of the cash in the settlement. That's why I have the house.
Mystery2Me Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 (edited) Hi D2013, Like you I was married for 16 yrs together for 20, no kids, and a beloved pet....when I former spouse decided to abruptly leave. IF no children why would want to maintain any contact? For my beloved pet, I DO NOT rely upon the former spouse but board her at a really nice kennel or arrange a pet sitter. My little one also travels with me for vacation. For me I want absolutely no contact...our new lives have no room anyone whom has behaved so poorly. Just my 2cents. Enjoy your vacation and cheers. ~Mystery;) Edited October 16, 2013 by Mystery2Me
rach63 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 If you don't even want to reply to her text messages, why would you allow her in your house? 1
road Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 If you don't even want to reply to her text messages, why would you allow her in your house? That. What happened to here ticket? Did XW have an affair? Wives do not leave unless they have another man. Do you think XW is fishing to come back? How were the pets watched when you went on vacation together in the past?
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