sweet05 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Hi guys I posted a week ago my story. When I posted I told you I had sounded like the psycho ex because I was dating someone (for just a month but it was intense) and he broke off telling he had too much stress in his life (divorced) and that he was emotionally unavailable right now. That he had feelings for me but needed time apart, that only time would tell. He blocked me from facebook and everything. Guys you are not going to believe this. When we started going out on the second weekend he told me he had already planned this weekend off with a friend that was coming from Arizona and some other friends in common, that they were going to the mountains. I was like ok, who is this friend and he told me it was a bisexual girl that had her gf, that they were really close friends as he saw her like one more of the boys. Time passed and again she came to visit, he didn't introduce us, I just didn't see him that weekend he was with her hanging out. He would take her to the airport and come directly to me. At one point I felt jealous and he was like no way, she is like a guy, I told her about you, and she says you are an angel in my life, that I should really take care of you. Well we broke up 3 weeks ago. Last night I get a phone call from a weird number and I pick it up. It was him I tell him I don't want to talk to him. He tells me wait there is someone that needs to talk to you. And this girl picks up the phone and tells me her name, and asks me why I bother this guy since we dated in march. I was like hey I didn't even know him in March, I used to date him intensely in Aug-Sep. She was like when was the last time you saw him, I said 3 weeks ago. Told her who are you exactly because he did mention you as a gay friend that he treated like a boy, she said "I am his girlfriend for 3 months!!!!" I was like wow, she just said you can have him and hanged up. I spoke to her today and we saw all the lies he said, they never went to the mountains, they stayed here in NY. He was intimate with her left her in the airport and then came directly to me and was intimate with me. THAT IS SO DISGUSTING! I am so glad we ended, he is such a psycho. I told her I didn't want anything to do with him, that I don't like cheaters and liars, that she could have him. That I didn't want to talk anymore either to him or here, that I was out of all drama. I feel thankful that I got out of that quickly but so pissed of because of what a liar he was, and feel disgusted knowing he slept with both of us. I tell you its so difficult to trust guys! I started dating someone and poor him I am going to go so slow, because I don't trust anyone anymore.
Stealth3 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 My ex looked me in the eyes and told me no way there as another guy involved at all when she broke up with me...a month later I found out she was talking to a guy 3 days before she broke up with me. She dumped me to make time to start dating him. So it goes both ways....if you just start judging based on past experiences, you are only screwing yourself.
Author sweet05 Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 Hey at least she broke up with you. I was cheated he was seeing us at the same time!
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