todreaminblue Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Maybe I just have too much empathy. But I had to tell a lady that I don't think things are going to work out and that we shouldn't see each other anymore. We only went out three times, even had plenty of fun, but for various reasons I just don't see us as being compatible. I know it's the right thing to do, to be honest with her and tell her, especially so as not to lead her on that things are great. But I just feel bad, knowing she will be hurt. Ugh. Does it always suck doing this, even when you know it's the right thing to do? ometimes doign the right thing is the hardest thing you have to do when it concerns the feelings for someone other than yourself you dont know how they process things.... ....but when its right to do, you forgo then, giving another person false hope to me that is worse..you are doing the right thing by not leading heron..wastign anothers tiem because you cant say how you really feel...isnt good....far more damaging...deb
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