Fayella Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 My ex is coming to get his stuff as I asked him to, I feel it's better if he get's them so I can continue to move on instead of being reminded of him all the time. The thing is he keeps acting like he doesn't want the stuff back, they are movies so he keeps saying he'll pick them up when I've watched them and how I can still borrow them until whenever. I just don't get it. Plus I don't know what to do when he comes over? Should I just hand him the stuff at the door or invite him in? I'm scared of being rejected or embarrassed. We're meant to be 'friends' btw.
Zahara Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 "Friends"...right. Open the door, hand him the stuff, say take care and close the door. Invite him in? You're broken up. Sometimes people leave stuff behind so that they can use that as an excuse to make contact when they're 1) bored 2) lonely 3) ego stroke 4) fallback. 1
BC1980 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 My ex is coming to get his stuff as I asked him to, I feel it's better if he get's them so I can continue to move on instead of being reminded of him all the time. The thing is he keeps acting like he doesn't want the stuff back, they are movies so he keeps saying he'll pick them up when I've watched them and how I can still borrow them until whenever. I just don't get it. Plus I don't know what to do when he comes over? Should I just hand him the stuff at the door or invite him in? I'm scared of being rejected or embarrassed. We're meant to be 'friends' btw. If he won't come get the stuff, email him that you are mailing it to him or sending it to charity. You can always get a friend of family member to drop stuff off to him if you don't want to see him. That's perfectly understandable.
Sososad Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Hey just be careful this might seem like A harmless meeting or just handing back stuff I know I done this myself once after 3 weeks no contact . Thought I'd be grand and play it cool .. Ended up trying to get another chance put be right back to square one.. Just be careful if u doubt your ready maybe get a Friend or hold off for now .. Good luck either way !
Recommended Posts