mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 As much as I am glad and relieved that my ex hasn't and won't reach out with any hint of a 'happy b-day', a little, tiny, minuscule piece of me wishes she would. Of course, I wouldn't respond, but it would some how make me feel better to know that she is thinking of me, even just a little. Honestly, I'll be glad when this day is over and I can just go back to my NC regiment without this tiny splinter in my brain
JoelBarish Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy Birthday - let's hope you don't hear from her, why ruin your day ? If you do hear from her, enjoy the satisfaction of ignoring her. 1
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 If you do hear from her, enjoy the satisfaction of ignoring her. Exactly!!!
barky2 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy birthday bro Montana! Believe me, be glad she if she doesn't. It'll send you thru a whirlspin that you don't deserve... Especially on your bday Go out have a blast , here's 20$ for a round on me. I said this a few times,my bday last year I flew out to Vegas by myself...I naively unblocked my (ex) on Facebook and bought wifi on the flight out. My plane took off at 9am, I had a few jack and cokes on the way out,the stuartist announced it was my bday.. So everyone was buying me nips. I was have a great time talking to random people ( even pulled a number from a girl that was going out there to party with her friends,meet up with her..different story for a different day ) but low and behold my ex wrote me a freakin 10 paragraph letter (been nc for 6weeks) saying how much she missed me and our dog blah blah Moral is,my mind raced ,so many questions. It did me no good. So take the money I gave you and go enjoy yourself Once again happy birthday from all of our weird crazy helpful family on loveshack. Barky 3
JDPT Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy Birthday man!Mine is in December and the chances of her contacting me are slim to none. I didn't contact her for hers which was in July. If she does MEH If she doesn't MEH Enjoy this day buddy! 2
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Yeah... I know it's better without. I've been NC for 7+ months and slowly healing and recovering. I don't want or need anything screwing up that progress. Like I said, I just want to get back to my regiment. F her anyway 2
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 I didn't contact her for hers which was in July. My ex's was in June and she got the gift of silence!!! 1
JDPT Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 My ex's was in June and she got the gift of silence!!! Same here lol Although I must admit, July was the month of hell.
cavalier99 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy Bday bro. Grat job on 7 months NC! Thats awesome. Youll be over it soon i think. Cav 1
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Has been and continues to be a never-ending roller coaster of emotions. I'm just tired of spending all this energy on it/her.
cavalier99 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Has been and continues to be a never-ending roller coaster of emotions. I'm just tired of spending all this energy on it/her. See ...your getting tired of it!!! This is how we eventually let go..we get it beaten out of us!! lol 3
J21 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy birthday man. Hope you go out and have a good time. 1
BrightHope Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Wow - no contact with her on her birthday. I'm impressed. Good for you for doing all the right things. Honestly...my exs bday is in six weeks and Im already thinking about it. You are an inspiration! 1
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Yeah... Unfortunately, feels like I've been stuck here for a while. Just need to get past that last hump. Really difficult though. Always up and down. Back and forth. And I don't think there is really anything else to learn, glean or discover. I've read it all. I've heard it all. I've said it all. So, I guess all I can do is soldier on 1
reddragon588 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy birthday! Thank you for serving as an inspiration if what happens when you focus on moving forward. 1
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Thanks all you LS'ers. Could never have made it this far without you. Really. This has been my main source of support and it has been huge. All in all, just another day in the battle of recovery. Carry on 1
LuvsTrucks2 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Happy birthday! Congratulations on maintaining the NC. I'm too am approaching a significant anniversary at the end of the month and have been thinking a lot on how I am going to make it through that day without being a mess. Again, congratulations! 1
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 happy birthday sweetie pie!! :love: 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 What's up brother? Happy Birthday man! I wanted to praise you and say how proud I am of how you are doing with all of this. Every new user should use you as a reference of how to survive a breakup. Yes, you still hurt, but think about now and the day it happened. You have made tremendous progress and when its finally all out of your system, you will be so much better than before. Keep being motivation to many users out there. 2
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 LOL!!! Yeah. I guess if one was to read all of my blatherings over the last 7 months, it would make an interesting tale to say the least. I guess the one thing I can stand up and be proud of, it's that I've stuck to the NC guidelines pretty diligently. And, yes, although it is often difficult to measure or feel, I'm sure the improvements have been many. Again, I have you all to thank! I really don't know what I would have done without LS and the many veterans and newbs alike!! Even those I've had bitter disagreements with, there has been learning and growing there as well. It's a day to day battle, and we're all in it together. We're all on the same team! And even though I've never met any of you, I feel like I know some of you quite well. It's very comforting 3
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 LOL!!! Yeah. I guess if one was to read all of my blatherings over the last 7 months, it would make an interesting tale to say the least. I guess the one thing I can stand up and be proud of, it's that I've stuck to the NC guidelines pretty diligently. And, yes, although it is often difficult to measure or feel, I'm sure the improvements have been many. Again, I have you all to thank! I really don't know what I would have done without LS and the many veterans and newbs alike!! Even those I've had bitter disagreements with, there has been learning and growing there as well. It's a day to day battle, and we're all in it together. We're all on the same team! And even though I've never met any of you, I feel like I know some of you quite well. It's very comforting I wonder if unity was what Al Gore was striving for when "creating the internet" haha Keep it up man! 1
crazybestie101 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 As much as I am glad and relieved that my ex hasn't and won't reach out with any hint of a 'happy b-day', a little, tiny, minuscule piece of me wishes she would. Of course, I wouldn't respond, but it would some how make me feel better to know that she is thinking of me, even just a little. Honestly, I'll be glad when this day is over and I can just go back to my NC regiment without this tiny splinter in my brain Happy Bday!!! By not wishing you she is doing favor to you. My ex wished me on my bday well we were still friends that moment. But believe me that b day text lead lot of other confusions to me. it's good to see your spirit. Stay on NC ( best thing ever). I wish you great year ahead! 2
StraylightRun24 Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Happy Birthday mtnbiker. I'm glad to hear you're close to finally getting over this ****ty emotional roller-coaster!
Fufu Posted October 16, 2013 Posted October 16, 2013 Happy Belated Birthday and sending you lots of hugs
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