Rafaela Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 for 3 months now i have been going out with a divorced man i met online ( he is 30/i am 24), things from the beginning was tense and full of eager and challenge, we met in a lounge he was already with his friends. thought he would follow that dating routine like taking me out to a restaurant but it didn't happen that way anyhow it wasn't awkward to meet him and his friend for first time we had fun later that night he kissed me before i went home, for a week no text, i said okey he is playing that mind game whoever text first loses. so i didn't text back until he asked me out in the following week. went out to restaurant/bar that's when things start to be awkward he was getting shy but he is playing cool bad boy, i was playing wise and quiet asking questions here and there. we spoke about our jobs/interests/ future in career wise only. then no text for a week. so i got sick of it showing me all interest and not calling me the day after. but things started to get slowly better until that night we went out to restaurant then to a lounge to meet his friend we finished from there till 3 am so he asked me to sleep over his place since its later. i had a feeling that it's a call of romance we had sex for first time it amazing but the morning was super awkward he kept asking me if i was okey and that i seemed weird i wasn't at all. to skip the details: we both went to vacation separate on august we kept in touch, till texted that he met someone who can help him to find a job in Dubai, then i said: just give me heads up before leaving, he said now m being drama queen, i wasn't but i don't wanna date someone who has intention of moving away. especially that i know it's too early for him to involve in his plans. after a month from vacation we met again. we had sex almost everyday. we start to communicate about our likes and dislikes, we start to meet almost everyday and also intruduced me to his brother and sister. most of time i would spend night over since he lives close to my work. i don't leave my stuff at his place of course. but recently i noticed few things start to turn me off that i have no explanation why he is acting this way. even i mentioned my standers and requirement to him like i am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage he was fine with long term but not ready for marriage yet since he had already bad experience which i understand, here are the new acts: - for a month now: sex doesn't last long as before like 3 to 5 mnts, he gets up from bed once he is done without satisfying me. -he wants me to sleep over almost every day and he gets mad if i refuse to meet him. -if we get an argument he start giving me examples of mistakes that ex-wife done. for info he is divorced for 2y now. -he is complaining about his boss and he started to look for new job, even there is nothing to complain about, he is being moody -he picks on me and criticize every move -he is very keen with his cellphone, it's never away from him or on table. -he asks me a lot about my past even i only been in 1 relationship, he thinks i dated a lot of guys. -he doesn't compliment me -he never spoke about his feelings towards me or calling me pet names. during this long weekend, he went out of town with his family and didn't not call me at all, i sent him a funny pic and commented ''lol''. when he came back yesterday i texted: i was expecting u to call me. he said that i got fingers to dial his number too. pissed me off and didn't answer his phone call. Am i over reacting or he is not respecting me?
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