Silux Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 So, me and this girl have been dating for a few weeks now. She is very guarded toward me due to past **** heads I know.thats not a real issue to me, the thing that gets me is the secrecy with her end. She's told some friends of our relationship but not many. She doesn't want pics of us on Facebook or anything like that. More less acknowledge the relationship, I know it's still early. Is this a normal thing for people so guarded?? I'm an extremely open person, so this raises flags for me as my son is head over hills for her as well. Any suggestions/thoughts?
Philosoraptor Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 She's hiding you and not over her past... what could possibly go wrong? She's not giving you a fair chance because someone in her past did her wrong. That's not something you should have to deal with.
mammasita Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 It's only been a few weeks - don't rush the girl!
PegNosePete Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 It's been a few weeks and your son is head over heels for her? Really? Don't you think it would be a good idea to wait until the relationship is a bit more solid before introducing the kids?
Author Silux Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 She met him prior to us dating or even talking through friends.
deathandtaxes Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Patience. Enjoy the ride. Are you having a good time going out? How is your relationship in general? If everything else is good and you can stand her being guarded, continue cautiously. BUT - if it bothers you, be assertive about it and tell her how you feel.
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