lauri Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Shortly after my ex dumped me I went NC. However, I've been getting prank calls lately around 1am and im not sure who has been doing it. I could ignore if it was on my cell phone but this person has been calling my home phone and it has been affecting my family too. The number is blocked. I have a feeling it might be my ex but I have no proof. Is this something I should break NC for to ask if it her? I don't want to accuse her or even talk to her but I don't like how this is harrassing my family. How should I handle this?
Toddbt12y1 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 You can contact the phone company, and get whoever is calling you. They may can do something about it. You may can contact the police and have them deal with this prank caller. This is harassment. Breaking NC to ask her is senseless. Doubtful she would even be honest; even so, you will play her game if you do. 1
Author lauri Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 I agree it would play into her game but I don't want to have to call the police and get her charged. I kind of wanted to give her a warning ahead of time to say stop, enough is enough. But then again, I'm scared of stalling my healing process. I'm thinking about getting my brother to write her an email...I really hope it doesn't get to the point where I need to charge her as it will get messy.
Zahara Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 I agree it would play into her game but I don't want to have to call the police and get her charged. I kind of wanted to give her a warning ahead of time to say stop, enough is enough. But then again, I'm scared of stalling my healing process. I'm thinking about getting my brother to write her an email...I really hope it doesn't get to the point where I need to charge her as it will get messy. If you see a blocked number, just ignore it. It's much easier to do that than to fall into hurt and pain again. The issue isn't worth the risk. You have no proof it's her, therefore you'll just have to let it go. Judging from your recent threads, you're not in a position to do any confronting/inquiring. Some things you just have to deal temporarily in an effort to stay focused on moving ahead with your healing. At some point she will go away, if it's her. And even if it's her and you confront her, she's not going to admit to it. It's useless.
organizedchaos Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 I agree it would play into her game but I don't want to have to call the police and get her charged. I kind of wanted to give her a warning ahead of time to say stop, enough is enough. But then again, I'm scared of stalling my healing process. I'm thinking about getting my brother to write her an email...I really hope it doesn't get to the point where I need to charge her as it will get messy. Why should you care if she get's charged? As far as you know, this could be anyone calling you and you'd be doing what any normal person would do. Report it to the proper people to deal with. Don't play in to the drama IF in fact, it is her.
Janesays Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 That is the silliest reason I've ever heard to break NC.
Zahara Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 That is the silliest reason I've ever heard to break NC. I concur. The things that a broken heart will concoct. 1
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