Confused2233 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Ok so me and a girl on my course at uni kind of fell into a relationship and before long I was in love. We were together for 2 years. The first year was great, second, not so much. We argued quite a lot and could not realise the cause of what we were doing wrong. She went on a girls holiday, came back and finished things with me. I was completely heartbroken and did everything I could to get her back. After a month or so we were back on. Things were a bit odd at the start but it felt right. One night I came back and she was asleep, I know I should have but I looked at her phone and discovered she had a huge feed of messages from someone she met on holiday and this was later coupled with a lot of sexual pictures on her computer I said it was over and had a big rant etc. stupidly, and don't ask why, the only reason I can think of is because of how much I loved her, I took her back. Since this, the relationship slipped in and out of being good/bad. But things we're not right, she tried to detach herself from the relationship and at the time I just saw this as her not giving enough to it which annoyed me and caused arguments. Long story short she dumped me again, I pined over her for a few months and now she wants to meet up. I know your all thinking get a grip, it won't ever work and your a fool for having no self respect but I'm such a romantic and very sensitive and I'm going to have to see her in a few weeks at graduation anyway. What shall I do ? Meet up with her ? Everyone says I'm crazy to consider her as relationship material after everything, are they right ? Or is there a small chance she has realised the grass isn't always greener and I'm a decent bloke ? Ultimately, what is her motive for meeting up ? Do people change and is this a very bad idea ?
Toddbt12y1 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 I'd say don't meet up with her. How many times must you be kicked and treated like a dog? You two first argued a lot, and then ended it. Later she is cheating on you, it ends, and you get back together. After this she detaches herself from you(did she show any signs of remorse, etc)? she and you aren't right for one another. You say you have to meet up with her, but really, you don't. That's hopeful weakness: you're hoping she will take you back, things have changed. She may do so, and it may be different. ..for a bit. But, the past speaks volumes. She will use you as a doormat. Be a man, end this completely. There are better women out there...
Philosoraptor Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 She cheated on you on her vacation then ended it when she got back. Listen to your friends, she has no respect for you.
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