What to think about my coworkers intentions?

[breeape]

So, I've been in a relationship with this guy for over 7 months now and our relationship is perfect. He's amazing and respectful and he's my best friend. I trust him with my life. He's 19, I'm 18. Anywhoo, a few months ago I was locked out of my house and my phone was dead, and during that time my family, and I were having issues. So, I after banging on the doors and windows for a solid half hour I started to have a meltdown thinking I was locked out, so I walked across the street to this grocery store and asked them if I could borrow the phone because I was locked out, and they said I could since I was in tears. After I walked out of the store, an employee who I see there all the time came out and asked me if I was alright. He asked why I was upset and if there was anything he could do to help. Then he tried to lighten up the mood by asking if I smoked, which I did, he also asked if I was still dating that one guy and I asked him which guy because I've been in two really long relationships the past 4 years, and the first time I saw him at the store was 3 years ago. I also asked him why, and he said he thought I was cute and he's seen me around a lot the past few years. He asked how old I was, I told him I was 18...he's 28. He told me that if I ever wanted to smoke with him or hangout if I broke up with my boyfriend, to just stop by the store and ask for him and he'd give me his number. Well, 3 months have passed, and I've just recently been hired there and turns out he's one of the managers. Anyways, I only work on weekends and we work different times but on my first day he noticed me working my checkstand, and from like two check stands away he calls me and welcomes me to the team, and not knowing what to say I hung up. Ever since then we've only kind of talked, and it's been in front of other coworkers about work. Well, my second weekend working there, I had just gotten off and was walking to the back of the store to get an energy drink, and he was stocking the groceries back there. He called me over and asked me how I was liking it there, then he brought up that one night, and asked if I was still dating my boyfriend, even though he saw me there with him a couple days before. Anyways, I told him I was and he wanted to know if I was weirded out by him at all, and told me not to be and that he didn't want it to be awkward between us. I said it's not at all and I totally get where he's coming from...the next day he was so nice to me at work. He's always nice to me at work. He's a nice guy in general. and I am so attracted to him I feel guilty. He's not directly flirty but I can tell he's attracted to me too. I just can't tell what his intentions are, and I don't really know what to do because I love my boyfriend but I'm so interested in this other guy. I shouldn't be feeling this way, but I do.

[Assasda]

Hahahaha, Sounds like you like your coworker.

YOur Boyfriend must be smothering you

[deathandtaxes]

Your coworker seems like a flirty young man. He was probing to see if you were still dating that guy because he probably would have asked you out. Just enjoy being flirty.

 

At 18, why are you in a hurry to have something serious?

[breeape]

Not in a hurry, just right timing when we met, instant connection. Our relationship doesn't have any problems though

[crederer]

I'm sorry but a 28 year old going for an 18 year old is creepy.

[Outsider77]

From my experience guys that age going for girls your age are creepy, immature jerks looking to take advantage of someone younger.

 

Happened to me lots of times. All throughout my teenage years. I'd be really impressed by the older guys and only later realized what total dicks they were. Actually, almost all of my experiences with men from that time were like that. I almost never dated anyone close to my age.