somebodyoutthere Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Six months and still grieving. Sometimes I wonder if this feeling will ever go away. I see a therapist, have been meeting new people but the feeling is still there. Sometimes things seem okay but then I get sad and can't hold back the tears. It kind of feels like this is going to take years to get over. How have you all coped with this?
love1336x Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 By living life... it's one step at time. If you focus too hard on moving on you'll never move on because you are giving attention to heart break and forcing yourself to move on. You just... gotta live life. 2
laidbackguy Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 In all honesty i believe that it shall always remain. Ultimately not so much that it dictates our daily schedule, but more like a reminder. I am stil coping after a few years now. Sometimes i find it hard to ignore the things that remind me spontaneously of a specifc event regarding my ex, good or bad. In case of the bad mememories i get so angry and curse and curse in my thoughts. Until i fall back to reality, look around, take a deep breathe, realizing that i am just cursing at a bad dream, a horrid memory. If you feel the need to cry, do so. In my experience i found it to be very liberating. One day at a time 1
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 I don't know. I buried my pain and thoughts of my first real love. Now it's been 20 years and I'm at an age where I often reflect on my life. I unburied those thoughts and it hurt like the day it happened.
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