PinkDotsXOXO Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 In a nutshell, my ex ended our relationship 6 months ago after 7 and a half years together. He started seeing someone new within days of breaking up with me and is still with her, and I just began seeing someone new about a month ago. We had NC on and off for months and have sort of decided to stay friends as our friendship is hot and cold. Our breakup did not end well, but I realize now I have no desire to be with him. My ex acts very odd with me. Last week he sent me texts saying things like it's times like these that made me realize that I had a rock solid support with you and you're the only one I can talk to and I had something so rare I couldn't see the value in it until it was gone. Yet, he swears he doesn't wanna get back with me and that he misses what we had but he doesn't miss being with me. He still calls me, texts me, and facebook messages me frequently. He swears he just wants to be my friend, but at the same time when we talk it's kinda about whatever is going on in our lives and then I usually mention his girlfriend being mad that he's talking to me and he just gets angry with me when I mention her being upset. I really don't understand what's going on here. Any opinions? I would definitely appreciate them!
alex007 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 It is really hard to say because I don't know how you guys were in your relationship and many other factors. But from a guys point of view on this... and from someone who has been on both ends of this... I would say you two were together for a long time and he does love you more then a friend and prob will for a very long time, but he sees this new girl as a challenge or things are fresher with her.. and he is keeping you around to maybe get back with you later down the road if this girl does not work out to be better then you. He must miss how you were with him in some aspects. I never understood how you could be In love with someone but then just be friends with them and not see them as more. I just do not understand how people do that. But this is just my opinion and it could be wrong. Just my 2 cents. But like i believe... if someone wants to break up with you and you didn't do anything to hurt them and you cared for them and loved them... just like I did with my last GF, and they break up with you. Then you deserve much better if they can not realize what they have lost, and they will probably always be unhappy with anyone else. Either way it is very hard and we all go through it. 2
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